~Self Conscious~

Dabs

~Unpredictable~
May 13, 2011
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What are you self conscious about??

For me it would be my rather large boobage and the ugly scar I have on my tummy :(
 
What are you self conscious about??

For me it would be my rather large boobage and the ugly scar I have on my tummy :(



I bet my boobage beats your boobage....so ya got nothing to worry about! :lol:

I'm not wanting to be in a contest to see who has the biggest boobage, they just are rather hard to deal with at times. They make it hard to run, and good bras are hard to find!
But I actually hate my scar worse :cranky:
 
Most people would guess it's my birthmark, but they'd be wrong. The think I am most self-conscious of is my personality and temper, both of which have the potential to get me in a lot of trouble if/when I don't keep them in check.
 
Your "boobage" is visible more often (although covered supposedly) than your scar which is hidden (unless you wear tube tops) and it is your scar that bothers you most. Hmmm. We all have scars, some visible some not, some physical and some emotional. That is what makes us individuals, it makes some people ashamed and others proud. Am I self conscious about myself? I used to be but as I traveled through time and I became aware of the flaws in everyone else I lost that self consciousness. I do have self awareness of my scars, flaws and physical limitations but I am who I am and I am comfortable with myself.
 
What are you self conscious about??

For me it would be my rather large boobage and the ugly scar I have on my tummy :(



I bet my boobage beats your boobage....so ya got nothing to worry about! :lol:

I'm not wanting to be in a contest to see who has the biggest boobage, they just are rather hard to deal with at times. They make it hard to run, and good bras are hard to find!
But I actually hate my scar worse :cranky:

I am just saying.... i feel your pain.

Im with you about good bras... try Wacoal bras...very comfortable.
 
Your "boobage" is visible more often (although covered supposedly) than your scar which is hidden (unless you wear tube tops) and it is your scar that bothers you most. Hmmm. We all have scars, some visible some not, some physical and some emotional. That is what makes us individuals, it makes some people ashamed and others proud. Am I self conscious about myself? I used to be but as I traveled through time and I became aware of the flaws in everyone else I lost that self consciousness. I do have self awareness of my scars, flaws and physical limitations but I am who I am and I am comfortable with myself.

The boobage, sometimes I think men aren't really paying attention to what I'm saying, and I tend to think people look at my chest more than they do my eyes or directly into my face, which in turn, makes me think they are not taking me seriously.
My scar bothers me greatly.
It's a terrible flaw on my body. I can not wear a bikini, I don't like for anyone to see it. It's one of those hard to describe situations, but I find the scar hideous and while it is indeed covered, I know it's there, and I go to great lengths to not let my belly show. And belly button rings, are definitely out of the question! :lol:
 
Your "boobage" is visible more often (although covered supposedly) than your scar which is hidden (unless you wear tube tops) and it is your scar that bothers you most. Hmmm. We all have scars, some visible some not, some physical and some emotional. That is what makes us individuals, it makes some people ashamed and others proud. Am I self conscious about myself? I used to be but as I traveled through time and I became aware of the flaws in everyone else I lost that self consciousness. I do have self awareness of my scars, flaws and physical limitations but I am who I am and I am comfortable with myself.

The boobage, sometimes I think men aren't really paying attention to what I'm saying, and I tend to think people look at my chest more than they do my eyes or directly into my face, which in turn, makes me think they are not taking me seriously.
My scar bothers me greatly.
It's a terrible flaw on my body. I can not wear a bikini, I don't like for anyone to see it. It's one of those hard to describe situations, but I find the scar hideous and while it is indeed covered, I know it's there, and I go to great lengths to not let my belly show. And belly button rings, are definitely out of the question! :lol:

I got a text from my ex two weeks ago telling me he still thinks about me all the time. He later explained he mostly thinks about my boobs.
 
zzzz is a time traveler?

I knew someone would say something about that. :lol:
Life is traveling through time. Just as you travel along the road on a vacation taking in the sights, experiencing new things, eating new foods, we also travel through time burning through the seconds, minutes, days experiencing life.
 
Your "boobage" is visible more often (although covered supposedly) than your scar which is hidden (unless you wear tube tops) and it is your scar that bothers you most. Hmmm. We all have scars, some visible some not, some physical and some emotional. That is what makes us individuals, it makes some people ashamed and others proud. Am I self conscious about myself? I used to be but as I traveled through time and I became aware of the flaws in everyone else I lost that self consciousness. I do have self awareness of my scars, flaws and physical limitations but I am who I am and I am comfortable with myself.

The boobage, sometimes I think men aren't really paying attention to what I'm saying, and I tend to think people look at my chest more than they do my eyes or directly into my face, which in turn, makes me think they are not taking me seriously.
My scar bothers me greatly.
It's a terrible flaw on my body. I can not wear a bikini, I don't like for anyone to see it. It's one of those hard to describe situations, but I find the scar hideous and while it is indeed covered, I know it's there, and I go to great lengths to not let my belly show. And belly button rings, are definitely out of the question! :lol:

I can say, being a man, that it certainly can distract my attention somewhat. But once a relationship is formed I think it becomes less of an issue. Certainly when you walk the streets we (men) notice and admire ample boobage :eusa_whistle: and that is just our animal nature, we cannot help that. There is something that draws our desire ... , of course boobage is not the only thing we physically admire about women. But we were created to be physically appealing to the opposite sex for the purpose procreation. When I am talking to a women I look into their eyes and try not to get distracted by the other things because to me your eyes are "windows to your soul" and through them I can see the inner beauty.

As to the scar, Do not think of it as something bad. It sounds like a fixation to me. Heck some people find scars admirable. I have a burn scar on my arm the size of a small pancake but it bothers me not. People ask me about it sure but it is a part of me, a part that I cannot change, but a part of my life. Of course I always crack a joke about it first, some outrageous thing that kinda puts them back on their heels.:lol:
 
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It's a terrible flaw on my body. I can not wear a bikini, I don't like for anyone to see it. It's one of those hard to describe situations, but I find the scar hideous and while it is indeed covered, I know it's there, and I go to great lengths to not let my belly show. And belly button rings, are definitely out of the question! :lol:

Dabs, we've talked about my birthmark a time or two, I believe. What you need to work on is accepting who you are and not worrying about what anyone else thinks of you in regards to that scar. It is what it is. It's part of what makes you who you are. Accept it. Embrace it. Use it to your advantage. Like the boobage, it's a great way to sort out those individuals who you don't want to have anything to do with because they're more or less interested in you because of a particular physical feature on your body.
 
For me it would be my rather large boobage and the ugly scar I have on my tummy :(

I'm guessing you are young, as you age, you will acquire more scars. I have several on my stomach from having 2 surgeries. And, once you have kids, your stomach, while it can be flat and toned, is never quite and flat and toned as it was pre-kids. I can choose to see these things as flaws, or I can make them something beautiful inside my head.

Here's how I see it: Those scars are beauty marks, I got them carrying two beautiful children safely into life. Anyone who doesn't see them as beauty marks is not someone I want in my life.

FWIW, as you get older, you'll realize that it is the little imperfections that are so endearing in the people that we love. Perfection is really rather daunting and cold, but our little beauty marks are how we know we're human.
 
Here's how I see it: Those scars are beauty marks, I got them carrying two beautiful children safely into life. Anyone who doesn't see them as beauty marks is not someone I want in my life.

Dead on, catzmeow. We all have our scars, wrinkles, etc... in life. I see them as momentos from certain moments in my life. If someone doesn't like them, that's their problem, not mine. I earned them and I'm keeping them, thank you very much.

I often get asked what I would do if I was suddenly faced with the prospect of being able to have the birthmark removed overnight, with a guarantee of no complications or scarring. I tell them there's no way on Earth that I'd have it removed. Generally they are dumbfounded by that answer. My comment is.... "I wouldn't know who that person in the mirror WAS the next morning."
 

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