Rules clarification please, moderators

[Care4all]

Attacks on family members will not be tolerated and will be subject to action by an Admin/Mod. Action taken could range from a warning to banning and will be at Admin/Mod discretion. The only exception to this is IF a member brings his/her family member(s) into the conversation first.

Does the phrase "did your parents have any children that lived?' count as an attack on a family member? I view it as an attack on the poster, not the family, but I wanted clarification. Thanks.

it's not an attack on his mother.

same with ''Do you still live in your Momma's basement?'' type thing.