Question for ladies.

[del]

Here is what made me ask this question.
My wife's friend broke up with the guy she was living with because he ordered porn on her cable (it's her house) and lied about it when she confronted him. She confided to my wife that she didn't have a problem with the porn, that she would have watched it with him, but the lying and deceit was the deal breaker.

what is a relationship without truth?

an election

 

[strollingbones]

i think men like about porn to avoid all the stupid quesitons women ask....do you want me to do that....sure honey i want you to fuck 300 guys in a row....*headbanging* is she prettier than me...sure honey them 48 ee..implants put you all to hell.....it is a visiual thing...with men....not so much with women..women prefer to imagine...men prefer to watch....

if you are gonna get pissed off over porn then you need to walk away...lots of trials and tribulations in a relationship without making a mountain out of a mole hill...now as for the lying..that was just wrong...but worth walking out over....men lie...humans lie....men lie when they think they are gonna get yelled at...and dont say you dont...many times its just the"put this yelling off lie"....prime example we iz all drinking and drinking hard.....bubba says...good and drunk....let me call the little wife and tell her i am gonna be late...we are like what kinda fool does that...she is just gonna cuss you twice....
now i tell you want makes me crazy...not answering his damn cellphone.....that is what i will kill him for one day...

 

[Korimyr the Rat]

My girlfriend owns porn. She knows I don't like it and she has the decency not to rub it in my face.

The idea that it constitutes "cheating" is just ludicrous. I know women like that, and I won't get involved with them even though porn will never be a problem between us.

 

[Cecilie1200]

Any woman who's ever fantasized about Johnny Depp, or Hugh Jackman, or whoever her favorite sexy movie star is, needs to shut her piehole on the subject of porn. Fantasies like that are just porn in the imagination instead of on paper.

 

[submarinepainter]

I would never watch porn around the wife but When she's gone I do .She knows I look at it upon occasion

 

[Toro]

Here is what made me ask this question.
My wife's friend broke up with the guy she was living with because he ordered porn on her cable (it's her house) and lied about it when she confronted him. She confided to my wife that she didn't have a problem with the porn, that she would have watched it with him, but the lying and deceit was the deal breaker.

Is that true or is that a rationalization? If he came out and said, "yes dear, I watch porn because we don't have sex enough," do you honestly think she'd have stayed?

 

[Sky Dancer]

Any woman who's ever fantasized about Johnny Depp, or Hugh Jackman, or whoever her favorite sexy movie star is, needs to shut her piehole on the subject of porn. Fantasies like that are just porn in the imagination instead of on paper.

That's ridiculous. What are you, the thought police?

 

[dilloduck]

Any woman who's ever fantasized about Johnny Depp, or Hugh Jackman, or whoever her favorite sexy movie star is, needs to shut her piehole on the subject of porn. Fantasies like that are just porn in the imagination instead of on paper.

That's ridiculous. What are you, the thought police?

no one said you can't do it. Fishing for oppression again ?

 

[007]

Any woman who's ever fantasized about Johnny Depp, or Hugh Jackman, or whoever her favorite sexy movie star is, needs to shut her piehole on the subject of porn. Fantasies like that are just porn in the imagination instead of on paper.

That's ridiculous. What are you, the thought police?

Why is it ridiculous? Because you didn't see it in a vision while you were dancing in the sky?

 

[elvis]

Here is what made me ask this question.
My wife's friend broke up with the guy she was living with because he ordered porn on her cable (it's her house) and lied about it when she confronted him. She confided to my wife that she didn't have a problem with the porn, that she would have watched it with him, but the lying and deceit was the deal breaker.

Is that true or is that a rationalization? If he came out and said, "yes dear, I watch porn because we don't have sex enough," do you honestly think she'd have stayed?

She would have stayed. It was the deceit she didn't like. I can see her being into watching it. This was the last straw, as I said.

 

[DamnYankee]

Here is what made me ask this question.
My wife's friend broke up with the guy she was living with because he ordered porn on her cable (it's her house) and lied about it when she confronted him. She confided to my wife that she didn't have a problem with the porn, that she would have watched it with him, but the lying and deceit was the deal breaker.

Is that true or is that a rationalization? If he came out and said, "yes dear, I watch porn because we don't have sex enough," do you honestly think she'd have stayed?

She would have stayed. It was the deceit she didn't like. I can see her being into watching it. This was the last straw, as I said.

Then it would appear that there were a number of other straws preceding this one....

 

[Toro]

Is that true or is that a rationalization? If he came out and said, "yes dear, I watch porn because we don't have sex enough," do you honestly think she'd have stayed?

She would have stayed. It was the deceit she didn't like. I can see her being into watching it. This was the last straw, as I said.

Then it would appear that there were a number of other straws preceding this one....

Yeah, frankly if she broke it off over this one indiscretion, that would seem a little over the top. I read somewhere that porn accounted for nearly half of all bandwidth used on the Internet, or at least it did a few years ago. That's a whole lot. My guess is that most guys are lying to their females about the amount of the stuff they're watching.

 

[elvis]

Is that true or is that a rationalization? If he came out and said, "yes dear, I watch porn because we don't have sex enough," do you honestly think she'd have stayed?

She would have stayed. It was the deceit she didn't like. I can see her being into watching it. This was the last straw, as I said.

Then it would appear that there were a number of other straws preceding this one....

it was one of about five things.

 

[Dis]

If you are in a committed relationship, is porn cheating? (assuming you don't look at it together)

Nah. If that's the worst you have to worry about in your relationship, you've got it made.

Men like to look at almost anything that has boobs and legs. It's just how they're made.

 

[dilloduck]

If you are in a committed relationship, is porn cheating? (assuming you don't look at it together)

Nah. If that's the worst you have to worry about in your relationship, you've got it made.

Men like to look at almost anything that has boobs and legs. It's just how they're made.

hey---we eventually get to the personality part !

 

[Cecilie1200]

Any woman who's ever fantasized about Johnny Depp, or Hugh Jackman, or whoever her favorite sexy movie star is, needs to shut her piehole on the subject of porn. Fantasies like that are just porn in the imagination instead of on paper.

That's ridiculous. What are you, the thought police?

What the hell are you talking about? Who said anything about any sort of "police"? I'm commenting on the hypocrisy, not suggesting that anyone be prosecuted. God, could you rein in that paranoid persecution complex of yours just a bit?

 

[Cecilie1200]

If you are in a committed relationship, is porn cheating? (assuming you don't look at it together)

Nah. If that's the worst you have to worry about in your relationship, you've got it made.

Men like to look at almost anything that has boobs and legs. It's just how they're made.

hey---we eventually get to the personality part !

As near as I can tell, that's the point where men leave if they're going to . . . when they take their eyes off the boobs long enough to take a gander at the personality.