Humor-- I have a friend that I can tell my worst day on earth to and he will find something funny in it and get me laughing about it. Inteliigence--How would you like to have the situation in Sri Lanka analyzed by a journalist who is world traveled? I have a friend like that. Warmth--My friend Radha will sit there with her arms wide open and tears of compassion will fall as you tell her about something sad that you noticed happening that day. She is like the sun. Someone who has a song for every occasion, (that would be me), and who can make children laugh with delight. Irreverence-- someone who can take the most serious topic and poke a playful hole in it. Equanimity--seeing a man extend the same kind regard to every living creature he meets with no exceptions and no favorites. Add your own.