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I don't understand it either but people are just wired differently, my brother has 2 children and is a drug addict, career criminal and is always in and out of prison. Right now now he is in a rehab in Salt Lake City Utah that my dad is paying for, my dad also sends child support to his kids because my brother doesn't support them and really doesn't care, he was interested for a little bit when the first kid was born but quickly grew bored and went back to doing drugs and dealing them as well, one of the kids almost choked to death on a Vicodin he left out and had to go to the ER. He really doesn't care, and it's wierd because we had both parents and we were raised better than this. Sometimes people are just bad and its not the fault of the parents.
It's almost like some don't even have an emotional attachment to their own children.
As if they lack some sort of instinct...
My sister has kids, there is nothing in this world I wouldn't do for them...
I treat them as if they were my own...
At one point I was like your bro tho, however I cleaned my act up.... However I would never neglect my child - even if I did have a substance problem.
My brother is 27 years old, 3 years younger than me, he is never going to change or claim any responsibility for these kids, him and his girlfriend were both on drugs when she was pregnant with the second child so now it has all kinds of problems and seizures and is always in the hospital, and of course my scumbag brother doesnt care and doesn't even go down there. Its scary to think how these kids are going to turn out, some folks really don't have any business reproducing.
31...
Yeah, I should have been more proactive around 21 instead of playing poky-poky or "big pimping."
Then again no nice chick would have touched me with a yard stick back then...
Funny how things workout..
I think you did the right thing though, when you are in your 20's it's the right time to try and enjoy as many women as possible when you are in your prime, plus if you did get married when you were younger chances are she would have changed up on you, women change alot from the age 20 to their mid 20's, even 30's sometimes. I got married when I was 19 and thought I was set for life, 5 years later we just became totally different people, I kind of regret getting married because I should have spent my early 20's partying and having fun with as many women as possible, I am 30 now and I should have waited until around this age for the marriage, kids etc. now I don't want to ever get married again, divorce is hell and living with someone you don't love or trust is pure misery, I don't want that ever again. I was in the Military when I was going through my divorce and I actually asked to deploy to Iraq to get away from her, and this was back in 2006 when people were getting killed in Iraq everyday!
I wanted to serve in the military in my early 20's...
They wouldn't let me because I had cases pending, then when they were over I tried again and they wouldn't give me the waiver needed...
I had my fun in my teens and twenties, now at 31 I want a family...
In my lifetime I have been with many woman just loved a few of them ironically the ones I did love/who loved me I only been with them a few times.....Of course I was horndogging it all over the place....
It's almost like some don't even have an emotional attachment to their own children.
As if they lack some sort of instinct...
My sister has kids, there is nothing in this world I wouldn't do for them...
I treat them as if they were my own...
At one point I was like your bro tho, however I cleaned my act up.... However I would never neglect my child - even if I did have a substance problem.
My brother is 27 years old, 3 years younger than me, he is never going to change or claim any responsibility for these kids, him and his girlfriend were both on drugs when she was pregnant with the second child so now it has all kinds of problems and seizures and is always in the hospital, and of course my scumbag brother doesnt care and doesn't even go down there. Its scary to think how these kids are going to turn out, some folks really don't have any business reproducing.
Totally understand bro....
I have a brother that is 3 years younger too, he's 28 tho.. He has no kids, but he is a total pothead and his girl lived in my house and before that in my parents house for the last 6 years and she was a stripper and a pothead/junky....
If they ever had a kid I would have recommended it to my parents that they take it away and have and they agreed.
Thankfully she moved out and away....
I think you did the right thing though, when you are in your 20's it's the right time to try and enjoy as many women as possible when you are in your prime, plus if you did get married when you were younger chances are she would have changed up on you, women change alot from the age 20 to their mid 20's, even 30's sometimes. I got married when I was 19 and thought I was set for life, 5 years later we just became totally different people, I kind of regret getting married because I should have spent my early 20's partying and having fun with as many women as possible, I am 30 now and I should have waited until around this age for the marriage, kids etc. now I don't want to ever get married again, divorce is hell and living with someone you don't love or trust is pure misery, I don't want that ever again. I was in the Military when I was going through my divorce and I actually asked to deploy to Iraq to get away from her, and this was back in 2006 when people were getting killed in Iraq everyday!
I wanted to serve in the military in my early 20's...
They wouldn't let me because I had cases pending, then when they were over I tried again and they wouldn't give me the waiver needed...
I had my fun in my teens and twenties, now at 31 I want a family...
In my lifetime I have been with many woman just loved a few of them ironically the ones I did love/who loved me I only been with them a few times.....Of course I was horndogging it all over the place....
You are at the right age now if you still want to try marriage, plus you got your partying out of the way. When I was in the service I saw so many Airmen in their 20's get married and most of those marriages all went down in flames, because either one of them or both of them were not done partying and wanted to go out and have fun, and eventually people started cheating and everything went to hell. I have seen this story so many times it all sounds the same now.
You have to be very careful who you have kids with these days, alot of women just want the baby for the child support that comes out of your check if you are gainfully employed.
That's why I don't have kids... Well that and it's difficult to find a woman that shares the same morals as I do.....
I think he loves them in his way.
But he's poisonous, drunk, and dangerous. I think it's an indication that he loves them that he stays the hell away. He's doing us a favor, and it is because I dictated that was the way it was going to be, not because he flaked out. If I wanted him around I'd probably never get away from him.
Love is being a father to your children..
It's putting down the booze and being selfless and doing anything and everything possible for your child.
If I had a kid my life would be dedicated to the child - it wouldn't be about ME anymore it would be about the child.
I suppose some just aren't born with that sense of instinct....
My brother is 27 years old, 3 years younger than me, he is never going to change or claim any responsibility for these kids, him and his girlfriend were both on drugs when she was pregnant with the second child so now it has all kinds of problems and seizures and is always in the hospital, and of course my scumbag brother doesnt care and doesn't even go down there. Its scary to think how these kids are going to turn out, some folks really don't have any business reproducing.
Totally understand bro....
I have a brother that is 3 years younger too, he's 28 tho.. He has no kids, but he is a total pothead and his girl lived in my house and before that in my parents house for the last 6 years and she was a stripper and a pothead/junky....
If they ever had a kid I would have recommended it to my parents that they take it away and have and they agreed.
Thankfully she moved out and away....
It seems like there's a fuck up like that in every family, thats why I make sure to tell people its not always the parents fault, when people see fuck ups like my brother they automatically assume my parents did a shitty job raising us which is completely false, my dad is an electrical engineer and my mom was a stay at home mom so we got all the attention we needed in the home, they are not to blame for him being this way.
I think he loves them in his way.
But he's poisonous, drunk, and dangerous. I think it's an indication that he loves them that he stays the hell away. He's doing us a favor, and it is because I dictated that was the way it was going to be, not because he flaked out. If I wanted him around I'd probably never get away from him.
Love is being a father to your children..
It's putting down the booze and being selfless and doing anything and everything possible for your child.
If I had a kid my life would be dedicated to the child - it wouldn't be about ME anymore it would be about the child.
I suppose some just aren't born with that sense of instinct....
Your dramatic declarations would carry more weight if they weren't theoretical for you.
I think he loves them in his way.
But he's poisonous, drunk, and dangerous. I think it's an indication that he loves them that he stays the hell away. He's doing us a favor, and it is because I dictated that was the way it was going to be, not because he flaked out. If I wanted him around I'd probably never get away from him.
Love is being a father to your children..
It's putting down the booze and being selfless and doing anything and everything possible for your child.
If I had a kid my life would be dedicated to the child - it wouldn't be about ME anymore it would be about the child.
I suppose some just aren't born with that sense of instinct....
Your dramatic declarations would carry more weight if they weren't theoretical for you.
Love is being a father to your children..
It's putting down the booze and being selfless and doing anything and everything possible for your child.
If I had a kid my life would be dedicated to the child - it wouldn't be about ME anymore it would be about the child.
I suppose some just aren't born with that sense of instinct....
Your dramatic declarations would carry more weight if they weren't theoretical for you.
I don't know, there's a lot to be said for men who are fairly calculated about when and with whom they have children, and who make a decision that when they do finally do it, it will be a certain way.
Of course, life loves to take those sorts of plans and tweak them a little...but starting with a plan and commitment is a really good place to start.
Love is being a father to your children..
It's putting down the booze and being selfless and doing anything and everything possible for your child.
If I had a kid my life would be dedicated to the child - it wouldn't be about ME anymore it would be about the child.
I suppose some just aren't born with that sense of instinct....
Your dramatic declarations would carry more weight if they weren't theoretical for you.
You do realize I'm the oldest out of 4??
You do realize I have a niece and nephew I love dearly - as in more than myself???
Love is being a father to your children..
It's putting down the booze and being selfless and doing anything and everything possible for your child.
If I had a kid my life would be dedicated to the child - it wouldn't be about ME anymore it would be about the child.
I suppose some just aren't born with that sense of instinct....
Your dramatic declarations would carry more weight if they weren't theoretical for you.
I don't know, there's a lot to be said for men who are fairly calculated about when and with whom they have children, and who make a decision that when they do finally do it, it will be a certain way.
Of course, life loves to take those sorts of plans and tweak them a little...but starting with a plan and commitment is a really good place to start.
Your dramatic declarations would carry more weight if they weren't theoretical for you.
You do realize I'm the oldest out of 4??
You do realize I have a niece and nephew I love dearly - as in more than myself???
Do you realize that all does NOT equate to the topic at hand? I notice you do this shit a lot. You don't seem to think that logic applies to you, and you have a desperate need to think of yourself as an expert on topics about which you have little or no real knowledge or experience. You should really do something about that.
You do realize I'm the oldest out of 4??
You do realize I have a niece and nephew I love dearly - as in more than myself???
Do you realize that all does NOT equate to the topic at hand? I notice you do this shit a lot. You don't seem to think that logic applies to you, and you have a desperate need to think of yourself as an expert on topics about which you have little or no real knowledge or experience. You should really do something about that.
I do have knowledge on the topic ...................
No, it's not always the parents' fault.
And people can only do their best, we're all hampered by our own foibles and inadequacies. I loved my older boys dearly but made some major mistakes with them. Now they're saddled with the backlash of those mistakes..their own personalities, that were molded by them, but the kids I'm raising now are benefiting from them (and never fear, it doesn't escape the notice of the older boys) because I won't make those mistakes again. I'm sure I'm making other mistakes though. To tell the truth, I'm sure it would have been better for the younger kids if I hadn't brought their brother here. But these are the trade offs we make. Sometimes they work out, sometimes they don't. In this case, they get to know their older brother. So we have to walk sometimes and reaaallly stretch the menu (we're eating some interesting meals right now in this last week, I must say).
Your dramatic declarations would carry more weight if they weren't theoretical for you.
I don't know, there's a lot to be said for men who are fairly calculated about when and with whom they have children, and who make a decision that when they do finally do it, it will be a certain way.
Of course, life loves to take those sorts of plans and tweak them a little...but starting with a plan and commitment is a really good place to start.
I was merely pointing out that trying to sound like an 'expert' on certain matters about which one has no experience is a little ridiculous. But that is this kid's M.O. on many subjects.
Do you realize that all does NOT equate to the topic at hand? I notice you do this shit a lot. You don't seem to think that logic applies to you, and you have a desperate need to think of yourself as an expert on topics about which you have little or no real knowledge or experience. You should really do something about that.
I do have knowledge on the topic ...................
You have said yourself that you do NOT have experience in the topic at hand.
I don't know, there's a lot to be said for men who are fairly calculated about when and with whom they have children, and who make a decision that when they do finally do it, it will be a certain way.
Of course, life loves to take those sorts of plans and tweak them a little...but starting with a plan and commitment is a really good place to start.
I was merely pointing out that trying to sound like an 'expert' on certain matters about which one has no experience is a little ridiculous. But that is this kid's M.O. on many subjects.
How the fuck do you know I'm not an expert?
Prove that shit bitch...
Bless your heart KG.
Remember to make him feel loved.
Kids will put up with all kinds of change if they feel truely loved.
