I've learned that the views are much more similar in principle than you'd think. Most pro-lifers want abortion legal up to a certain point in terms of rape, incest, and if the mother's help is in danger. Most pro-choicers want abortion legal up to a certain point in all cases. The only differences are in the very small minorities who make up each group. Examples of this are in the pro-life group who oppose abortion even in cases of rape, incest, mothers help and the extremes in the pro-choice group who think abortions should be able to happen at any point in the pregnancy. I've all all the crazy rhetoric from both sides like "baby killing", "you're anti-freedom", "you don't care about the baby", "you don't care about the mother" is just silly childish rhetoric said in order to gain some kind of emotion-based reaction.