nakedemperor
Senior Member
Yurt said:What do you think?
Yurt; I am of the opinion that the onus is on the gay community to protect themselves (and others). I don't know if you've had a chance to read any of my other posts on the subject of gay rights, but I almost always say something to the tune of: anal sex, practiced with a condom, and with a pre-screened, disease-free partner is the only way to combat the problem of the spread of STDs. I say this not at all judgemental of the gay lifestyle. I support what people want to do in the privacy of their own bedrooms, its their choice. What I do not support is the notion that homosexuality itself is "dangerous and deviant", and society needs to "protect itself" from the "overly promiscuous" spectre of homosexual men who are "more selfish than others". I argue that STDs are a public health problem and not a homosexuality problem for this exact reason. Many people call HIV/AIDS a "gay disease" simply because anal sex is more likely to transmit it. That holds about as much water as me saying its a "straight disease" because more women in the world have it than men.
Imagine if instead of condeming homosexuality we condemn unprotected sex with an unscreened partner. What if homosexual relations weren't more dangerous than heterosexual relations; then we could all live happily, tolerant and appreciative of each other, instead of trying to stamp out and "illegitimize" a phenomenon that just isn't ever going to go away, and nor should it be expected to.