Wicked Jester
Libsmackin'chef
We have a lady in our group who was a nurse in Vietnam. She came home and went to medical school and became a doctor. She's been married 6 times. Was a raging alcoholic, which ended her private practice many years back, and has just now been able to mend things with one of her 7 children thanks to what she's learned through counseling. She's working on her relationship with her other 6 kids, but it wasn't until she finally sought counseling that she's been able to do so. Still, she's got a long way to go.Geaux,I apologize for saying, "brainwashed". He became scary to me at times... Especially when he started drinking and having flashbacks.
One 4th of July he had to go to the basement and wear earplugs because the fireworks that were blasting made him nervous. I was ten at the time and I remember following him down there and asked if he was ok. I could clearly see he wasn't. He replied in a scared voice and said, "please let me be. I'll be upstairs soon.". I never understood that moment until years later as to why he seemed so frightened.
I would like to also say I am not saying all military are like this. I am only speaking from MY experience with MY father. There are amazing people who are in the military and have never acted the way dad did/does.
That's because you have never been on the other end of incoming.
Maybe it's also because a ten-year-old little girl whose daddy is going through that can't understand why; or why the way he acts scares her sometimes, or why he drinks too much...sometimes, it's not just about us, no matter how much we hurt....