Hi As my thread title says, i have a specific ethic question. I´m 40 years old now and I know my mother only being drunk or being in rehab. Because of her alcoholic "disease", two of my siblings committed suicide trials, one is in jail, another in a psychatric institution. Now my mother took her last drink and is now in a home for retired people where she can´t get out anymore because she has alcoholic dementia and alzheimer. I´m the onlies of 6 siblings who gained some kind of a "normal life" - even though i had a horrible childhood, including staying in children´s homes, staying at extremely violent foster parents etc.. Now I got a letter from the city my mother lives that I have to show my incomes and assets because I have to pay for the home of my mother. What do you think about that? How is this arranged in the usa?