Muslim Woman's Guide: How to Make Your Husband Happy

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    How to Make Your Husband Happy

    The following is part ONE of a summary of the book "How to make your husband happy" by Sheikh Mohammed Abdelhaleem Hamed.

    1- Beautiful Reception
    After returning from work, school, travel, or whatever has separated you,
    begin with a good greeting.

    * Meet him with a cheerful face.
    * Beautify and perfume yourself.
    * Start with good news and delay any bad news until he has rested.
    * Receive him with loving and yearning sentences.
    * Make hard efforts for excellence of the food & having it ready on time.

    2- Beautify and Soften the Voice

    * For your husband only, it shouldn't be used in front of non-mahram men
    (men who can marry you if you were unmarried).

    3- Smelling Good and Physical Beautification
    * Taking good care of your body and fitness.
    * Put on nice and attractive clothes and perfumes.
    * Bath regularly and, after the monthly period, remove any blood traces
    or bad smells.
    * Avoid that your husband observes you in dirty clothes or rough shape.
    * Avoid prohibited types of ornamentation, e.g. tatoo.
    * Use the types of perfumes, colors, and clothes that the husband likes.
    * Change hair style, perfumes, etc. from time to time.
    * However with these things you should avoid excessivness.

    4- Intercourse
    * Hasten for intercourse when your husband feels compulsion for it.
    * Keep your body clean and smelling good as possible including cleaning
    yourself of released fluids during intercourse.
    * Exchange loving phrases with your husband.
    * Love your husband to fully satisfy his desire.
    * Choose suitable times and good occasions for exciting your husband,
    and encouraging him to do intercourse, e.g. after returning from a
    travel, weekends, etc.

    5- Satisfaction With What Allah (SWT) Has Allotted
    * You shouldn't be depressed because your husband is poor or works in a
    simple job.
    * You should look at poor, sick, and handicapped people and remember
    Allah (SWT) for all that was given to you.
    * You should remember that real wealth lays in Iman and piety.

    6- Indifference to Worldly Things

    * You should not consider this world as your hope and interest.
    * You should not ask your husband for many unnecessary things.
    * Asceticism does not mean not to enjoy what is good and permissible
    (Halal), but it means that one should look forward to the hereafter and
    utilize whatever Allah SWT gave them to achieve paradise (Heaven).
    * Encourage your husband to reduce expenses and save some money in order
    to give charity and feed poor and needy people.

    7- Appreciation
    * By the saying of the prophet, the majority of people in hell were women
    because they were ungrateful and deny the good done to them.
    * The result of being grateful is that your husband will love you more and
    will do his best to please you in more ways.
    * The result of being ungrateful is that your husband will be disappointed
    and will start asking himself: Why should I do good to her, if she never
    appreciates?

    8- Devotion and Loyalty
    * In particular in times of calamities in your husband's body or business,
    e.g. an accident or a bankruptcy
    * Supporting him through your own work, money, and properties if needed.

    9- Compliance to Him
    * In all what he commands you, unless it is prohibited (Haram).
    * In Islam, the husband is the leader of the family, and the wife is his
    support and consultant.

    10-Pleasing Him If He Is Angry
    * First off, try to avoid what will guarantee his anger.
    * But if it happens that you can't, then try to appease him as follows:
    1- If you are mistaken, then apologize.
    2- If he is mistaken then:
    # Keep still instead of arguing or
    # Yield your right or
    # Wait until he is no longer angry and discuss the matter peacefully
    with him.
    3- If he was angry because of external reasons then:
    # Keep silent until his anger goes
    # Find excuses for him, e.g. tired, problems at work, someone
    insulted him
    # Do not ask many questions and insist on knowing what happened,
    e.g. 1) You should tell me what happened? 2) I must know what
    made you so angry. 3) You are hiding something, and I have the
    right to know.

    11-Guardianship While He is Absent
    * Protect yourself from any prohibited relationships.
    * Keep the secrets of the family, particularly intercourse and things
    that the husband doesn't like other people to know.
    * Take care of the house and children.
    * Take care of his money and properties.
    * Do not go out of your house without his permission and put on full hijab.
    * Refuse people whom he does not like to come over.
    * Do not allow any non-mahram man to be alone with you in any place.
    * Be good to his parents and relatives in his absence.

    12- Showing Respect for his Family and Friends
    * You should welcome his guests and try to please them, especially his
    parents.
    * You should avoid problems as much as you can with his relatives.
    * You should avoid putting him is a position where he had to choose
    between his mother and his wife.
    * Show good hospitality for his guests by arranging a nice place for them to
    sit in, perfection of food, welcoming their wives, etc.
    * Encourage him to visit his relatives and invite them to your home.
    * Phone his parents and sisters, send letters to them, buy gifts for
    them, support them in calamities, etc..

    13- Admirable Jealousy
    * Jealousy is a sign for wife's love for her husband but it should be kept
    within the limits of Islam, e.g. not insulting or backbiting others,
    disrespecting them, etc..
    * You should not follow or create unfounded doubts.

    14-Patience and Emotional Support

    * Be patient when you face poverty and strained circumstances.
    * When you face calamities and disasters that may happen to you, your
    husband, your children, relatives or properties, e.g. diseases,
    accidents, death, etc.
    * When facing hardships in Da'wah (imprisonment, getting fired, arrested,
    etc.), be patient and encourage him to keep on the path of Allah and
    remind him of paradise.
    * When he mistreats you, counteract his ill-treatment by good treatment

    15- Support in Obedience to Allah, Da'wah, and Jihad

    * Cooperate with your husband and remind him of different obligatory
    and voluntary worships.
    * Encourage him to pray at night.
    * Listen and reciting the Qur'an individually and with your husband.
    * Listen to Islamic tapes and songs individually and with your husband.
    * Remember Allah SWT much, particularly after Fajr and before Maghrib.
    * Share in arranging Da'wah activities for women and children.
    * Learn Islamic rules (ahkam) and good manners ('adab) for women.
    * Support your husband's activities by encouraging him, offering wise
    opinions, soothing his pains, etc.
    * Yielding some of your rights and a part of your time with your husband
    for Da'wah.
    * Encourage him to go for Jihad when needed and remind him that you and
    children will be in the preservation of Allah SWT.

    16-Good Housekeeping
    * Keep it clean, decorated and well arranged.
    * Change house arrangements from time to time to avoid boredom.
    * Perfect of food and prepare healthy foods.
    * Learn all the necessary skills for managing the house, e.g. sewing.
    * Learn how to raise children properly and in an Islamic way.

    17-Preservation of Finances and the Family

    * Do not spend from his money, even for charity without his permission
    unless you are sure that he agrees on this.
    * Protect his house, car, etc. while he is absent.
    * Keep the children in good shape, clean clothes, etc. Take care of
    their nutrition, health, education, manners, etc. Teach them Islam
    and tell them the stories of the Prophets and companions.

    www.islamfortoday.com/how_to_make_your_husband_happy.htm
     
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    Where can I get me a Muslim woman!
     
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    At the local mosque there are plenty of them.

    But you have to be a Muslim to marry one. :eusa_angel:
     
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    And of course if you don't make your husband happy...

    [ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ye8ccCeINDY[/ame]

    [ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Y7Ruan6xOI&feature=related[/ame]
     
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    Makes me really happy not to be Muslim.
     
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    A muslim woman is the best wife in the world.

    Her husband feels like he died and went to heaven cause he is treated so well. :eusa_angel:
     
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    Funny that.

    I've friends that married Muslim women who were different religions. And the opposite.

    Maybe it's just in America.

    Dunno.
     
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    Yeah...but in America you are not allowed to beat the crap out of them if they don't please you.
     
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    Then I seriously doubt that the women you know are believing muslims or attend the Mosque.

    Because a muslim woman who wears hijab and follows the Islamic religion will NOT marry a non-muslim. Period
     
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    i care more about how a person loves me..than i do about their religion
     
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