The world changes... Back when I was in school, if I had of gotten kicked out of class for not standing during the Pledge of Allegiance, the school principal would have beat my ass and when I got home my father would have beat my ass. The next day at school I would have no trouble standing up because my ass would be too sore to sit on. It just amazes me to see how people act during the playing of the National Anthemn before sports games, car races, etc. You can call it what you want to call it, but when you don't stand up, put your hand over your heart with your cap removed, it's just very rude behavior.
You were born in the wrong country and wrong era..
Germany circa 1933 would have been the perfect time and place for you...
No, I don't think so. Those of you in your early 40's, 30's and younger have grown up in a much different culture than those of us who are older. We who were kids in 50's and 60's or earlier were never indoctrinated in school--we were not told what we should think or believe--but we were required to respect authority and demontrate manners and proper protocol. And that included showing proper respect at all times including respect for the school anthem (and the other schools' anthems too), the Pledge, the National Anthem, and the flag. We weren't required to like it. But we were required to show proper respect. Teachers had absolute authority in the classroom and most kids had parents at home who backed up those teachers.
It did not hurt us or warp our little psyches in the least.
(A bad teacher though--any who got out of line with a student in any way--were generally soon gone.)