The Government calls me "Married." Apparently the definition of marriage is being redefined, so say the critics of gay marriage. So I looked at my wedding tape and I didn't find any instance of the word "married" or "marriage." Words mean things folks. I am in a holy Matrimony. Holy Matrimony is a Sacrament. Who cares if the government calls my situation a "marriage?" Yes, I am married. The government calls it that. However, I am not bound "til death due us part" by marriage since the government has a mechanism for my marriage to end. My Church has a mechanism for annulment, but that is a situation where there never was a proper holy Matrimony. So I don't get this whole "redefinition of marriage" thing. Who cares?