Married women hitting on me via fb and on phone?

[ninja007]

Please serious replies only... I'm a 45 year old out of shape guy...single. I have a friend on FB and met in person a few times to do something for her. Her husband was away on business in various places in the US for 5 years. He just came home. She has 2 kids, older son and a 13 yr old daughter. I have no kids, never been married. She repeatedly told me on FB and phone that I was good looking and should come out of my shell. W/O getting into the entire convo- is she hitting on me? She says she has male friends and is independent etc. I told her we will go out for coffee one day or a bite to eat. told her to text me anytime. not sure what I should think, and NO- probably not going to do anything with her. She is 42. Pretty good looking tbh. Polish girl.

 

[ninja007]

eta she said i looked like her husband, and ive seen him. we do a bit. Our common interests are love of animals, cats esp. Shes vegetarian.

 

[Bruce_T_Laney]

eta she said i looked like her husband, and ive seen him. we do a bit. Our common interests are love of animals, cats esp. Shes vegetarian.

Maybe just looking for a guy when the husband away. Just becareful mate because I have been down that road and it turn romatic quickly and seeing she has two kids and is married it could ruin lives quickly.

 

[ninja007]

eta she said i looked like her husband, and ive seen him. we do a bit. Our common interests are love of animals, cats esp. Shes vegetarian.

Maybe just looking for a guy when the husband away. Just becareful mate because I have been down that road and it turn romatic quickly and seeing she has two kids and is married it could ruin lives quickly.

i understand and agree, just was curious thats all.....im like wth? MAYBE she really just wants to be friends...no idea.

 

[fncceo]

Possibly the saddest thing I've ever seen in print.

 

[blastoff]

eta she said i looked like her husband, and ive seen him. we do a bit. Our common interests are love of animals, cats esp. Shes vegetarian.

Sounds like a keeper!

 

[HereWeGoAgain]

FBJ?

 

[fncceo]

This is like 'The Notebook' sad.

This is like coming home from school and finding out your old man ran over your cat sad.

 

[fncceo]

This is like an eight-year-old kid with progeria cracking all his ribs trying to catch a nerf ball sad.

 

[yiostheoy]

The most carefully guarded secret in the world is that married women all suffer from needing variety that they are not getting.

And while a sexual relationship with a married woman can be fun, it is a dead end street.

But then some guys like James Bond in Casino Royale only date married women because there are no strings attached.

Been there and done that.

 

[CrusaderFrank]

Husband was away on business -- for 5 years? Wow.

Be very, extremely careful that you're not misreading her signals. Might be better to go to some online dating service