I've always had a hard time holding a grudge. There are certain members on the USMB board that seem to revel in it, me, I'm just not good at it.. There are certain members I prefer to avoid of course, there are certain members that seem to go out of their way to peddle their peeves but me.. I just can't be bothered. I seem to be always willing to forgive and forget (unless it's family related) but I've always wondered if that's a weakness or a strength.