- Moderator
- #141
What does this topic have to do with Muslims anyway? It's about a bridal shop talking about "religious rights" to not serve a gay couple.
What I wonder ... in situations like this ... are "religious rights" being stretched to the point of being meaningless? You might not personally approve of same sex marriage...but there is nothing in doctrine specifically denouncing it.
Here is one side of the problem. A wonderful friend of mine, in fact - the woman who got my dog Cowboy back on his feet and walking - is a lesbian. She and her long term partner were finally able to be married when their state's laws changed. They did and invited me. It was a lovely ceremony but I noted that there was a very last minute change of venue...and a few other last minute changes. And the reason was...you guessed.
So...what does a couple do when confronted by discrimination disguised as religious freedom? It's not like they can go into a bridal shop and know ahead of time it won't serve same sex couples. No. Instead they face the humiliation of being told - nicely - we don't serve your kind.
I'll add that I don't approve of gay couples DELIBRATEY trying to create a situation by going somewhere they KNOW won't serve them and setting them up. That isn't right either.
But my friend when through a lot of small and big hurts for her wedding - the greatest day of her life with the love of her life. She shouldn't have had to.
What I wonder ... in situations like this ... are "religious rights" being stretched to the point of being meaningless? You might not personally approve of same sex marriage...but there is nothing in doctrine specifically denouncing it.
Here is one side of the problem. A wonderful friend of mine, in fact - the woman who got my dog Cowboy back on his feet and walking - is a lesbian. She and her long term partner were finally able to be married when their state's laws changed. They did and invited me. It was a lovely ceremony but I noted that there was a very last minute change of venue...and a few other last minute changes. And the reason was...you guessed.
So...what does a couple do when confronted by discrimination disguised as religious freedom? It's not like they can go into a bridal shop and know ahead of time it won't serve same sex couples. No. Instead they face the humiliation of being told - nicely - we don't serve your kind.
I'll add that I don't approve of gay couples DELIBRATEY trying to create a situation by going somewhere they KNOW won't serve them and setting them up. That isn't right either.
But my friend when through a lot of small and big hurts for her wedding - the greatest day of her life with the love of her life. She shouldn't have had to.