I personally think it's harder after menopause...at least for me it has been...I'm a smidgen of my old strong self on the mental level....THAT is frightening! Gosh Pixie, your Dad and this with your son....it's like sitting on pins and needles, the stress and anxiety would be too much to handle for me, that's for certain, and stress is not good for anyone, so you need to take care of yourself now, it's time for you, to finally take care of YOU!My Son, oh man. That is another story. His Dr. Has told him he has this. Atlanto-Axial Dislocation And Fracture: Causes, Symptoms, TreatmentIt's just awful about your dad dying....and on the same day your hubby was killed....gosh Pixie....so sad!I know you do! What has kept you away for sooooooo long? THIS TIME stay, miss pixie!
My Dad died almost 2 years ago, on the same date that my husband was killed. I hate that day. My health went downward. I am working on trying to live a little more on the normal side. I have good Drs. I will be okay. Trying to stay positive. It was always my personality to be that way. Lost that for a little while Just a huge adjustment.
How is your son doing?
Know what you mean about living life outside of here...the normal side!
That is another trauma that has just caused my health to falter. The Doc actually said if he got hit or had a fall, that "it would be the end of him" That makes me so anxious and stressed.
I am really trying Care. Not sure I can do it. Pins and needles is a great way to put it. I am afraid all the time. I am trying real hard to give it to God. All the stress is killing me. I have to try harder