Judicial review
Gold Member
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I’ll keep this pretty straight forward knowing most men and women on USMB after reading this will be scratching their heads and some’s default reaction will be this is fantasy. However know this – I’m living proof this is real and men should strive to be like this not for themselves but for their families.
A real man will put the woman first in everything he does. Men can always get better jobs through knowledge and hard work. All men should strive to create stability for the family so his wife can fulfill her dreams, and in turn the woman should work with her man in getting him to his dreams. It all starts with the man. The man in everything he does should put the woman first even with small things like getting the door EVERY time.
I have seen men stand still - a status quo environment where his family is barely getting by and his wife is unhappy because she had dreams and now had to put them on hold in her prime years due to her husband not being a man and allowing his wife to fulfill her dreams and be happy. I give you an example - My hairdresser is 39 years old and has a son whom she adores, and a husband. She has been flirting with me ever since I complimented her and told her she deserves to be happy and to be supported in fulfilling her dreams. She knows I’m a successful business man. I asked her out 4 weeks ago. I said to her how would you like it if I treated you to a night of fun where you picked 3 things you wanted to do and I paid and we both had fun doing them? She was in shock I asked, but I knew she was hoping I’d ask her. She said, “Yes.” I said how about tomorrow? We picked a time and we went. Had a blast. I took her to dinner first at a very nice 5 star restaurant that I know she can’t afford to go to. I spoiled her. She’s a woman that is very special. More special than she even knew. I told her at dinner how special she was and that she deserves to be supported in fulfilling her dreams. She said she was too old to go to school. I said, nonsense, I said is that what your husband is telling you? I said, he should be supporting you and telling you to GO FOR IT! We only live once. I said, go after your dreams and be happy. I told her if she needs support that I’m here for you. From that moment on I had her completely. She was glued to me all night. I complimented her all night. After our date we went back to my apartment and we watched a movie. I told her my apartment was cold and I told her we should share a blanket. Half way through the movie when it was getting late I said nicely and sweetly come here. I put my arm around her and we cuddled. After the movie she kissed me and we went in my room and had sex. Her husband never called her once. He didn’t care where she was. Even though I was with her he should have called. I and she have gone on 4 dates since then. It’s weird but it’s like we were meant for each other.
Men – Don’t let this happen to you. In your heads you need to FIGHT TOOTH and NAIL for your wife’s happiness. Ask her what she needs to be happy. Ask her what her dreams are and don’t think MAKE THEM COME TRUE! PUT YOUR WOMAN FIRST! SHOW HER THAT HER HAPPINESS IS TOP PRIORITY. Period.
I don’t know what will come of my relationship with her, but I do know that she can’t get enough of me and I know I won change when it comes to me putting her happiness first. I’m happy when others are happy. I’m not at all like the typical man. The typical man is fractured in todays society.
If you would be a man you wouldn’t have to keep your women on a leash from real men like me.
Feel free to comment below.
A real man will put the woman first in everything he does. Men can always get better jobs through knowledge and hard work. All men should strive to create stability for the family so his wife can fulfill her dreams, and in turn the woman should work with her man in getting him to his dreams. It all starts with the man. The man in everything he does should put the woman first even with small things like getting the door EVERY time.
I have seen men stand still - a status quo environment where his family is barely getting by and his wife is unhappy because she had dreams and now had to put them on hold in her prime years due to her husband not being a man and allowing his wife to fulfill her dreams and be happy. I give you an example - My hairdresser is 39 years old and has a son whom she adores, and a husband. She has been flirting with me ever since I complimented her and told her she deserves to be happy and to be supported in fulfilling her dreams. She knows I’m a successful business man. I asked her out 4 weeks ago. I said to her how would you like it if I treated you to a night of fun where you picked 3 things you wanted to do and I paid and we both had fun doing them? She was in shock I asked, but I knew she was hoping I’d ask her. She said, “Yes.” I said how about tomorrow? We picked a time and we went. Had a blast. I took her to dinner first at a very nice 5 star restaurant that I know she can’t afford to go to. I spoiled her. She’s a woman that is very special. More special than she even knew. I told her at dinner how special she was and that she deserves to be supported in fulfilling her dreams. She said she was too old to go to school. I said, nonsense, I said is that what your husband is telling you? I said, he should be supporting you and telling you to GO FOR IT! We only live once. I said, go after your dreams and be happy. I told her if she needs support that I’m here for you. From that moment on I had her completely. She was glued to me all night. I complimented her all night. After our date we went back to my apartment and we watched a movie. I told her my apartment was cold and I told her we should share a blanket. Half way through the movie when it was getting late I said nicely and sweetly come here. I put my arm around her and we cuddled. After the movie she kissed me and we went in my room and had sex. Her husband never called her once. He didn’t care where she was. Even though I was with her he should have called. I and she have gone on 4 dates since then. It’s weird but it’s like we were meant for each other.
Men – Don’t let this happen to you. In your heads you need to FIGHT TOOTH and NAIL for your wife’s happiness. Ask her what she needs to be happy. Ask her what her dreams are and don’t think MAKE THEM COME TRUE! PUT YOUR WOMAN FIRST! SHOW HER THAT HER HAPPINESS IS TOP PRIORITY. Period.
I don’t know what will come of my relationship with her, but I do know that she can’t get enough of me and I know I won change when it comes to me putting her happiness first. I’m happy when others are happy. I’m not at all like the typical man. The typical man is fractured in todays society.
If you would be a man you wouldn’t have to keep your women on a leash from real men like me.
Feel free to comment below.
