I claimed that Catholicism holds that laypeople require Church assistance in order to have a personal relationship to God. I proved my case with links. All you've got is stories about your wife and your friend.
You have not proved your case. You equate Personal Relationship with God to Participation in Church Sacraments, God is not limited, to the Sacraments of the Church. Your definition of Personal Relationship is flawed. That is the point. Conscience is in each one of us. Locke Saw it, Madison, Jefferson, Thoreau, King, Gandhi. When I speak of Conscience, it is from the Human perspective, not Church Dogma. Think about what you are saying in your own argument. What is assistance? Primary? Secondary? Advisory? As Human Beings, that is the Root, before any club we think or wish to belong, Conscience is the strongest factor in each life. By your claim, you are stating either consciously or unconsciously, that one needs outside permission to follow the conviction of ones own heart. To me, that is an abomination. It is a false path. That is not the meaning of the Church Dictate. The Church does not tell us to choose between It and God, one or the other.
". You equate Personal Relationship with God to Participation in Church Sacraments"
No you moron!! I dont do that; YOUR OWN FUCKING CHURCH MAKES THAT EQUATION
And like most of the self-rightous hypocrit xtians, you're too dumb to know what your own faith promotes as The Truth
Your failure to comprehend that a personal relationship with God is more comprehensive than participation and membership in the Church. True, the Church has a Role, It claims certain Authority, yet in matters of Conscience, as a Human Being, We all have tough choices to make. God is the ultimate Authority over all things, even the Church. Sometimes even the Church is dragged kicking and screaming, just as you are now. In the end it's not about You and I, but correct action. You do not know my faith Sangha, you may know a tiny part of it, but to presume that you think you know my mind, is way off. You still have yet to recognize the foundation of my premise. Your anger and prejudice imprison you.