The lady at the check-out at the grocery acted as if if were too much of a burden to slide my few groceries across her scanner. I bagged them myself. When I'm in a public place trying to have a good time, I don't want to listen to your phone conversation about your OB/GYN visit. Go outside or to the bathroom. When I hold the door for you, male or female, a thank you would be in order.And especially if I have an arm load while waiting for your elderly mother to shuffle thru.