Is Modesty Relevant

[alan1]

LOl! Thanks for the laugh. I read a whole lot and hang out with intellectuals.

Oh, I meant coming of age in the 60's/70's, not that you are in your 60's/70's.


Now, about those intellectuals you hang out with..........................

 

[tigerbob]

I had fries already, so I'll take the "something." LOL!

With or without mayo?

 

[PoliticalChic]

With or without mayo?

That's a very personal question!!!

 

[alan1]

That's a very personal question!!!

He said "mayo", not "Do you enjoy sex in ketchup?"

 

[dilloduck]

He said "mayo", not "Do you enjoy sex in ketchup?"

aaahhh--- I thought he said "May I"

 

[tigerbob]

aaahhh--- I thought he said "May I"

Being English, I often mis-spell......

 

[dilloduck]

Being English, I often mis-spell......

there ya go with that famous British understatement again

 

[PoliticalChic]

aaahhh--- I thought he said "May I"

I didn't say Simon Says...

 

[dilloduck]

I didn't say Simon Says...

well----at least Simon is polite when he hits on a woman !

 

[alan1]

Being English, I often mis-spell......

My English friends often misspell common terms,
such as "lift" instead of "elevator"
or "flat" instead of "apartment".

It's quite amazing how the English don't really know the english language.

 

[PoliticalChic]

My English friends often misspell common terms,
such as "lift" instead of "elevator"
or "flat" instead of "apartment".

It's quite amazing how the English don't really know the english language.

I love how they pronounce the word "schedule." It gives me the shivers.

 

[catzmeow]

The creepy part about the OP is men blaming women for their sexual response. If you see an attractive woman, you choose how you will respond to that sexual attraction. You, and only you, are in control of your sexual destiny.

My ex-husband brought a friend to lunch today (a single male friend). We eat together on the holidays and such, it makes it easier for the kids. Anyway, his friend was clearly attracted to me, and his friend was attractive, too, I'm not going to lie. And I ENJOYED seeing that he was attracted to me. But, when it's all said and done, I'm in a relationship with a great guy (who is with his family in another state right now). I'm not going to act on that feeling of attraction just because it exists.

The idea that men can't control their actions in the face of a woman's sexuality is simply disturbing and creepy as hell. Take your asses back to your caves, jurassic males, if you are rendered unable to function by the presence of women.

 

[dilloduck]

The creepy part about the OP is men blaming women for their sexual response. If you see an attractive woman, you choose how you will respond to that sexual attraction. You, and only you, are in control of your sexual destiny.

My ex-husband brought a friend to lunch today (a single male friend). We eat together on the holidays and such, it makes it easier for the kids. Anyway, his friend was clearly attracted to me, and his friend was attractive, too, I'm not going to lie. And I ENJOYED seeing that he was attracted to me. But, when it's all said and done, I'm in a relationship with a great guy (who is with his family in another state right now). I'm not going to act on that feeling of attraction just because it exists.

The idea that men can't control their actions in the face of a woman's sexuality is simply disturbing and creepy as hell. Take your asses back to your caves, jurassic males, if you are rendered unable to function by the presence of women.

Men can and do control their actions regarding women every day and are not nearly as "creepy" as many would have you think. Was this man really attracted to you or was he simply attacted by your ornaments ? He may very well take that feeling and share that with a woman he knows, respects and is opening to his advances.

 

[strollingbones]

is modesty in the eye of the beholder or in the wearers mind? i am a 42 dd....i see no reason to bring attention or enhance my features...hell mr magoo couldnt miss em....i much prefer being smaller and have looked into reduction but they move the nipple and you can loss sensations in the nipple not willing to take that chance...

i prefer a man know what color my eyes are

 

[dilloduck]

is modesty in the eye of the beholder or in the wearers mind? i am a 42 dd....i see no reason to bring attention or enhance my features...hell mr magoo couldnt miss em....i much prefer being smaller and have looked into reduction but they move the nipple and you can loss sensations in the nipple not willing to take that chance...

i prefer a man know what color my eyes are

I happen to think it is----there certainly posters here who would label things almost pornographic that I wouldn't think twice about and probably vice versa. Apparently it is also a lot easier for a woman to be immodest than a man. ( cept for your hang up about bare chested men )

 

[strollingbones]

I happen to think it is----there certainly posters here who would label things almost pornographic that I wouldn't think twice about and probably vice versa. Apparently it is also a lot easier for a woman to be immodest than a man. ( cept for your hang up about bare chested men )

do not mistake me for a prude.....i find women wearing interesting things...well interesting...as in the breast avatar with the mouse on it....its cute but there are still some who would see it as porno...and dont get me wrong....i have skinny dipped with mixed company etc....but as far as dress i prefer to cover my features.....i assure you...i made the mistake of telling one guy to stop talking to my breasts and talk to me...dont tell a man with a mouth full of tea that...lol

as far a dress and rape...that is just sillie.....how erotic do 80 yr old women dress but they are rape victims that old

 

[dilloduck]

do not mistake me for a prude.....i find women wearing interesting things...well interesting...as in the breast avatar with the mouse on it....its cute but there are still some who would see it as porno...and dont get me wrong....i have skinny dipped with mixed company etc....but as far as dress i prefer to cover my features.....i assure you...i made the mistake of telling one guy to stop talking to my breasts and talk to me...dont tell a man with a mouth full of tea that...lol

as far a dress and rape...that is just sillie.....how erotic do 80 yr old women dress but they are rape victims that old

ok----I'll put you down in the semi-healthy sexual category

 

[strollingbones]

better the sexual fun cat..with an *

*skin cancer

 

[dilloduck]

better the sexual fun cat..with an *

*skin cancer

ok special category for you

you also get * for bare chested men pics.

 

[strollingbones]

o geezes i just dont get that.....bare chested men in public is just plain rude and uncalled for....is it just me..or dont men who are working when women come in...take the time to put on a shirt??? i will give roomy this....he at least posts a current pic of his bare chest (as if that is not bad enough) but to post one 20 years old? that is just plain weird...to me...