If You Could Have A Redo - What Age???

[Kat]

I was talking with a friend about this...got fairly interesting. So, if you could have a redo, what age would you like to redo, and why? A favorite age to date? Decisions you may want to have another chance at?

Discuss..

 

[Solace]

17, I would have changed somethings, not been with a few bitches, and I would have been in a few more healthier relationships than I was.

 

[Blagger]

I'm sorry, Kat, but are you talking about reaffirming your wedding vows, or your hair?

 

[FreeSpirit]

I am not that old, and from what I can tell, I am probably the youngest poster on this board, but if I could go back, I would have liked to think through a time or two when I made a mistake, but I've really learned from everything that's happened to me, and so far there is nothing I really want to go back and re-do.

 

[Big Black Dog]

When I was 18 years old, I joined the Navy. After the normal testing you get at Boot Camp, they ushered me and about 5 other guys into a small room to talk with this Captain. We were all scared shitless cause we thought we had done something wrong. This Captain said because of our test grades, the Navy would like to take us out of Boot Camp, enroll us into college and after graduation we would be commissioned into the Navy's Nuclear Power Program. None of us did it and we were placed back with our original Boot Camp Companies. Knowing what I know now about life and it's opportunities, I think I would agree to it if I had a "redo".

 

[Kat]

I'm sorry, Kat, but are you talking about reaffirming your wedding vows, or your hair?

Neither. But, I should have known better.

 

[hjmick]

The desire for a "redo" presumes one is unhappy with the life they have.

 

[roomy]

23 I would save the lives of the two that died.

 

[Big Black Dog]

The desire for a "redo" presumes one is unhappy with the life they have.

Not me!!! I'm happy as a clam.

 

[Kat]

23 I would save the lives of the two that died.

And thank you for getting what I meant.

 

[Kat]

The desire for a "redo" presumes one is unhappy with the life they have.

Not me!!! I'm happy as a clam.

So am I. Very much so.

But there are definitely things I wish I could do over, and not make the same decision again.

 

[Mr.Fitnah]

I dont remember saying I wanted to do it in the first place.

 

[Kat]

I dont remember saying I wanted to do it in the first place.

But is was the big IF.

 

[Sallow]

I got lemons..and made lemonade.

Nothing to redo.

 

[Kat]

I got lemons..and made lemonade.

Nothing to redo.

 

[hjmick]

The desire for a "redo" presumes one is unhappy with the life they have.

Not me!!! I'm happy as a clam.

So am I. Very much so.

But there are definitely things I wish I could do over, and not make the same decision again.

Okay, but if you get a "redo," there is always the possibility that you do not wind up where you are now. The simple act of "redoing" something could very well change your future...

 

[mal]

I was talking with a friend about this...got fairly interesting. So, if you could have a redo, what age would you like to redo, and why? A favorite age to date? Decisions you may want to have another chance at?

Discuss..

There are things I would have liked to have a do-over for, but if I changed anything to this point, the chance of not being Married to my Best Friend and having the little girl and boy we have together wouldn't be worth it.

I figure the Path I Chose is why I am where I am, flawed and all... An I couldn't be Happier.



peace...

 

[eagleseven]

I'm young enough where It's probably wiser to save the redo for the future...

...but I'd peruse a few relationships I abandoned for professional reasons.

 

[Kat]

Not me!!! I'm happy as a clam.

So am I. Very much so.

But there are definitely things I wish I could do over, and not make the same decision again.

Okay, but if you get a "redo," there is always the possibility that you do not wind up where you are now. The simple act of "redoing" something could very well change your future...

Good point. Still there are things I would like to have done differently.

 

[mal]

So am I. Very much so.

But there are definitely things I wish I could do over, and not make the same decision again.

Okay, but if you get a "redo," there is always the possibility that you do not wind up where you are now. The simple act of "redoing" something could very well change your future...

Good point. Still there are things I would like to have done differently.

Certainly... But what would you have Learned had you not made those Mistakes?...

Sometimes Mistakes and Bad things Build Relationships that otherwise wouldn't have been there or as Strong.



peace...