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    Yeah, yeah, I know this sounds retarded, but here goes...

    To begin with, I'm 18 as most of you probably already know, and I'm friends with a 13-year-old kid who I'll call Kyle. I'm a little concerned about this kid because he's obsessed with sex and thinks it's just the greatest thing. Hell, I know it's normal for 13-year-old guys to be interested in sex and joke about it from time to time, but Kyle actually makes allegations of having oral sex with his girlfriend and things like that. It used to be a little funny but now I'm really worried that he'll actually do it. I need to hear from parents on the board especially. What should I do about this?
     
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    Tell him he'll go blind? :rofl: If you are 5 years older, tell him why YOU would wait. He probably looks up to you, in some liklihood is trying to impress you-prove how 'close' you really are, maturity wise.
     
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    Find a medical site with photographs of various advanced stages of venereal diseases.:redface:
     
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    LOL! My son fainted in sophomore year when they showed a film. Out cold for 3 minutes. :rofl: :rofl:
     
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    Alright lets be real here for a few....You are 18 and obviously not the usual 18 year old, but would you actually want to hear from adults about something we know nothing about? Now hear me out for a few because what my point is would be why does this bother you so much? Keeping in mind that TV, radio, magazines, net and almost every other form of media and entertainment is filled with sex. Not to mention the word on the street to the youth is that either anal or oral sex is da bomb and you can't get AIDS or any number of diseases that way! Not to mention you can't get prego and it ain't that bad right? So maybe getting Kyle’s mind elsewhere might help for a while but really he's gonna do what he's gonna do. Am I giving in totally to you and his ideas? No but in a society that promotes this thinking and with a government that protects the kids over the adults what can be done here? Besides Kyle getting his azz kicked by some other guy for being a jerk off not much can happen. All I can say is this:
    Your life is way in front of you and treat people like you'd want to be treated. I can tell you that these girls aren't running around with any real knowledge of sex in its fullest scale or what can happen. All they want to do is being known as cool by the pack of other kids. Later in life that idea will fade and it won't be cool. Kyle is a selfish turd so until he has a bad experience or is really called down he isn't going to change.
    Look I didn't post this stuff to embarrass you or anyone else. See I have a 15 year old daughter who was prego and well she ain't anymore. All my values I tried to reasonably put out and show here are gone, my values keep getting lower and lower because of society and it's overbearing say in everything. Am I bitter? Not bitter but let down, I can only hope my girl will understand someday what she did was stupid and that we did the best for her to give her life because a young teen girl isn't prepared for raising a child.
    One other thing is Kyle does want to fit in to the older crowd and he may be just talking out his azz to be cool?
     
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    That's what I thought at first...but then again, I know what talk sounds like too...

    I've heard other kids brag about getting laid, but it was always just them showing off. This kid is real convincing the way he does it, though, and other guys in his class that I've talked to all think the same thing...If he hasn't done it already he will, soon.
     
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    Just out of curiousity.. If you're 18, what're you doing running around with a 13 year old? That's a little bizzare...
     
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    That had crossed my mind, but I do remember the 'kids' across the street when I was little, they were jr high/hs. When my brother and I got to about jr high age and were playing sports and stuff, they'd come and 'coach.'

    Looking back, they probably spent less than 3 hours a month around us, probably while waiting for their own friends to come around. They did help us out a lot though.
     
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    Actually, it's not as bizzare as you think...my friends range in age from 18 all the way down to 13. And as if the topic of this thread wasn't indication enough...13-year-olds are really not that different from 18 year olds anymore!

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    Yeah, there is. I'll tell you now, there is a hell of a lot of differnce between a 13 year old and an older 14, more a 15 year old. You are too close to that of which you are addressing.
     

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