LoneLaugher
Diamond Member
There is a lot of discussion on these boards about income inequality and supply side economics and the safety net, etc. It's all good.
I'm interested.....genuinely so....in how others perceive reality so far as the typical middle class family experiences life in America.
As a boy, living in a very typical Upstate New York small town......I think my experience was in many ways typical of middle class life in the 1970s. Here is how I would describe it.
My father.....a WWII veteran landed a civil service job fixing office machines when I was 3. Mom never worked outside the home until I was sophomore in HS. So....on one very blue collar income....we muddled through my childhood years.
My father was able to purchase a 4 bedroom home, two vehicles, every modern appliance, food and clothing and toys and sporting goods and other "necessities" for 4 children. We had access to a military base with a hospital and other services. Going to a doctor or a dentist was never a decision made by looking at a checkbook.
We went on a vacation every summer. We visited family over Christmas break. We ate out occasionaly. We went to a movie whenever we wanted to. We helped support the ice cream man and the local bowling alley.
There was an expectation that we'd go to college and it wouldn't require loans. The old man even went to night school to get his GED because he never finished HS as a kid. Mom was there when we left for school and she was there when we got home. Our real teacher was waiting for us and stood between us and fun.
Awesome, right? All of us did, in fact, go to college. We all "made it".
We may have been the last blue collar generation to have that experience.
If you were born in the 80's to a blue collar dad........you can bet your ass that your mom worked too. In order to have those two cars and those modern appliances and even think about college....two incomes were a given.....that.....and a credit card. You got home to an empty house......nobody to make sure the homework was done. Hell.....that's the school's job!
The experience was just not the same. And.....those people still followed the human urge to procreate. So.....we are now entering our second generation of blue collar kids who don't have "the good ol' days".
Anyone besides me think this is fucked up and needs to be fixed?
I'm interested.....genuinely so....in how others perceive reality so far as the typical middle class family experiences life in America.
As a boy, living in a very typical Upstate New York small town......I think my experience was in many ways typical of middle class life in the 1970s. Here is how I would describe it.
My father.....a WWII veteran landed a civil service job fixing office machines when I was 3. Mom never worked outside the home until I was sophomore in HS. So....on one very blue collar income....we muddled through my childhood years.
My father was able to purchase a 4 bedroom home, two vehicles, every modern appliance, food and clothing and toys and sporting goods and other "necessities" for 4 children. We had access to a military base with a hospital and other services. Going to a doctor or a dentist was never a decision made by looking at a checkbook.
We went on a vacation every summer. We visited family over Christmas break. We ate out occasionaly. We went to a movie whenever we wanted to. We helped support the ice cream man and the local bowling alley.
There was an expectation that we'd go to college and it wouldn't require loans. The old man even went to night school to get his GED because he never finished HS as a kid. Mom was there when we left for school and she was there when we got home. Our real teacher was waiting for us and stood between us and fun.
Awesome, right? All of us did, in fact, go to college. We all "made it".
We may have been the last blue collar generation to have that experience.
If you were born in the 80's to a blue collar dad........you can bet your ass that your mom worked too. In order to have those two cars and those modern appliances and even think about college....two incomes were a given.....that.....and a credit card. You got home to an empty house......nobody to make sure the homework was done. Hell.....that's the school's job!
The experience was just not the same. And.....those people still followed the human urge to procreate. So.....we are now entering our second generation of blue collar kids who don't have "the good ol' days".
Anyone besides me think this is fucked up and needs to be fixed?