HeartBroken: A-f'in-gain

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    Dammit.

    I was dating this girl. We were technically seeing other people, though I THOUGHT we had deep affection for each other. All the sudden she's in love with this other guy she's been talking to for several months, but didn't consider dating, until she met him in person. This dude swept her off her feet in a matter of a few days. M'ther f'er. He started using the M word. Marriage. This word made her go loony for him.

    Now, I'm just some dude she used to see. I loved this girl and this sucks.

    Any advice or pity or anything? From anyone? Libs? Here's a chance to kick me. I'm down.
     
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    Sorry, rwa. Been there.
     
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    Yeah. Hey. Wanna go drinking at lunchtime!

    The bucketshop at lenox!

    I understand if no, I've only been a fuckhead to ya, most of the time!
     
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    Can't..But next time I get near Lenox I'll let ya know.
     
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    If you ever want to feel REALLY good about your relationship, ask how mine is doing.

    :-/

    :(

    Sometimes it helps to get mad...you know, the whole 'B|tches ain't sh|t but hoes and tricks...' kinda mad.

    But then, you're just angry and lonly. :(

    Sorry about how bummed you are. It sucks and only time will make it better.

    :(
     
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    Yeah. I've been following your travails as you've gone along. I feel your pain.

    I'm going between anger, pain, and frenetic plans to drive by her house, so she can come outside and tell me she REALLY likes me better.
     
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    Cool.
     
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    Advice, when you get the next one don't go letting her see other people if you love her. It does not behoove you in keeping your girl to have her dating other people.

    If you had used the M word earlier on, or at least asked for a Commitment (C word works wonders when M word is just too early) you likely would still have your girl.

    It sounds like the girl is on the hunt for the Real Deal, and you hadn't offered that to her.

    I am sympathetic, but if you weren't looking for marriage then she did you a favor. If you were looking for marriage, you should have asked for that commitment. Remember engagements can last for a while...

    I hope you find what you are seeking.
     
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    Exactly right. the problem is Im a mess, and avoiding fixing my shit with vassalation and short term thrills.

    That's vacillation; I'm no sharecropper.
     
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    One of the things about engagement is that you can still break it off and it makes it very clear that nobody should be meeting or dating others...
     

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