I wouldn't care if he was gay, he was just plain wierd. I did get the hot resident who came in when I was starting to push to help. He was the same age as me.I swear my Obgyn is in the closet even though he is married, if you saw him walk you would think the same thing. And as for rooting around, after what I went through during labor and my obgyn tried to manualy flip my son I don't want anyone rooting around.
My gynecologist is female, a gay male wouldn't be bad either. I don't want some good looking guy doing an examination with me in that position. I think it's embarrassing.
My Obstretition was male and I was very comfortable with him but when I delivered, he was out of the country and the person taking his calls was a male and absolutely adorable. He made me feel really comfortable though because he was so nice.
I think going to the doctor is a little stressful too, you just have to find the right one, I guess.
You seem like you had a rough delivery, Luissa. Is that your only child?