BDBoop
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That's the only place where 'announcing' one's sexual preference makes any sense because their sexual preference is directly tied to them not being able to marry. Other than that? I seriously don't get things like 'gay day at Disney' or 'gay parades' or whatever.
Other than marriage/civil unions, what rights are gay people denied? None. So the point of announcing their sexual preference is . . . .?
Too many people (not you) are comfortable in their ignorance. They think gays should be covered by the three monkeys (see, speak, hear no evil). They are NOT evil. People need to see that.
That's a big part of why I love Ellen, and John Barrowman. They are out there, they are amazing people, and everybody loves them. Not because they're gay, or despite the fact that they're gay, but just because they are wonderful people that you can't help help but smile back at.
That's the only place where 'announcing' one's sexual preference makes any sense because their sexual preference is directly tied to them not being able to marry. Other than that? I seriously don't get things like 'gay day at Disney' or 'gay parades' or whatever.
Other than marriage/civil unions, what rights are gay people denied? None. So the point of announcing their sexual preference is . . . .?
Don't know. Rather like me being left-handed. When you're part of less than 10% of the population, it rather defines you.
One Christmas, my sister told me she was jealous because my fiance and I could be affectionate with each other in front of family, and she and Anita couldn't. I said it's not can't. It's won't. You had a choice to make, and you chose to stay closeted. That's not on me.
I'm a lefty too. I don't find that it defines me but rather it's just me, it's just how I am (but ok, I really, really, really like being left handed, not being like most others, the norm lol). But I don't go around announcing it I just . . . go around being. If someone where to have a problem with my lefthandiness? Then I see that as being their problem, not mine. I don't find I need to be validated by strangers and quite frankly, I don't give a hoot what they think of me. If they find me odd or quirky or icky? would be my reaction and I'd walk away.
Hell, I ^5'd our waiter yesterday for being a lefty. I like it. I like that you're a lefty. It explains things. KIDDING!