then, and only then, identify with others if you so choose. But all understanding in this world first stems from self identification, which means identifying with your race, or any other group that you belong to. If you cannot first self identify, then it means you have no identity, and you will go flailing about life in a futile attempt to gain one. That is how the powers that be control and manipulate you. Because they can market you an identity, which you are constantly trying to construct through buying stuff, or watching celebrities. etc. All of this is chasing after the wind as you know.