It IS barbaric. For whatever the reasons, whatever the circumstances. No one, not spouse nor parent, should have this right to decide the fate of another. What concerns me the most is that Terri's parents valued her life and what I question is the implication of all of this. Will parents now have the right to starve their seriously brain damaged children? And, if so, who will decide the parameters of 'quality of life'? Seems to be an oxymoron in the USA at this time of 'war'. We can support the involvement of Americans to die in Iraq and justify 'mercy killing' of the living wounded Iraqis, yet snuff out a life such as Terri's because we presume it has no meaning. Who decides?