Dating Etiquette

[Big Black Dog]

On your first date with a bovine, is it considered over the top to bring the date for the evening a whole bale of hay or should you keep it down to say, maybe just a few portions? What about instead of bringing hay, bring a salt block? I'm confused and I don't want to come across as too eager. Any suggestions? I would appreciate any advice from folks that have "been there, done that."