dmp
Senior Member
misterblu said:Seriously dood. Nobody needs to 'stop' doing anything. If your marriage is all hunky-dorey and you're not best friends with your wife then good for you. Plenty of us are best friends with our spouses and are perfectly content as well.
I suspect that you are in the minority in your thinking on this subject. However, I wouldn't dream of telling you to 'stop' simply because your way of thinking doesn't work for me.
Seems to bother you - considering for an instant that perhaps your wife may not be your "Best Friend" sounds rough, doesn't it? I can assure you it's NOT a bad thing - despite what popular culture tries to tell us.
Your wife is your Closest friend - very likely.
Your wife knows you like none-other - I accept that.
But to have a 'Best Friend' is something different. Your wife is not your 'best friend' - she's your WIFE. Much stronger. Much Better. Read Nienna's last reply. She gets it.