Cut back on sex if necessary

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    Don’t Have Sex -- For a Little While

    That’s right. Many sex therapists recommend taking a break from sex while you and your partner focus on emotional intimacy.

    “Most of the couples who come to our clinic assume that we’re going to be talking a lot about sex,” says Zamboni. “In fact, we often talk a lot less about sex than they expected.” That’s because most erection problems have little to do with the mechanics of sex and a lot to do with stress, anxiety, anger, and other feelings that find their way into the bedroom.

    “Talking intimately about work, about the marriage or relationship, about yourself, can be much more helpful than banging away and trying to have sex,” says Zamboni. He counsels couples who are having sexual problems to take walks together, go out for dinner at a favorite restaurant, or spend a quiet evening just talking. Once you and your partner feel more intimate on an emotional level, you may find that your sex drive and your erections perk up.

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    That sounds like somethin' a woman would say.

    Here's a tip for the ladies who have guys who "can't get it up". Soap each other up in the shower. Wear sexy lingerie. Experiment. But above all: SHUT UP AND GET DOWN TO BUSINESS! Don't be coy, be clear.

    Nothing will scare your man's bonar away quicker than you yappin' about some touchy-feely bullsh*t.

    Hot, Monkey Sex is all we want. You want us to do something in bed? ASK US AND WE WILL DO IT!
     
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    That's always been my argument for women who keep having unwanted pregnancies: STOP FUCKING!

    We're not uncultured animals that have nothing else to do.
     
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    Uncle Ferd says...

    ... "Bite yer tongue."
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    That won't help! How silly! Having sex or not having sex won't do anything to resolve the underlying problems a couple may have. It is a non-issue.
     
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    Is the therapist the same guy who invented the ice scraping machine?
     
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    This has created conversation regarding an approach that may never arise.....
     
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    It's not the fault of the woman after all without semen there is no pregnancy. Maybe the irresponsible men should cut out sex and go play basketball.

    Seems like a reasonable approach...
     
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    Good news, seems to be a new trend, may be due to rise of oral sex in teens...
    :clap2:
    Birthrate For US Teens Is Lowest In History
    10 Apr.`12 - Teen births are at their lowest level in almost 70 years, federal data report today. Birthrates for ages 15-19 in all racial and ethnic groups are lower than ever reported.
     
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