Coming Out Stories

[Sky Dancer]

Rotflmao!

 

[Sunni Man]

Nice troll story sunni boy. Me thinks YOU were pumping something, and it wasn't gas.......................

100% true story.

Saddly, today it would be on the news as a so called hate crime.

Those were the good old days!!!

 

[Sky Dancer]

Nice troll story sunni boy. Me thinks YOU were pumping something, and it wasn't gas.......................

100% true story.

Saddly, today it would be on the news as a so called hate crime.

Those were the good old days!!!

Nice personal anecdote, 'religion of peace' guy. The good ol days are still here in Iran. Wanna visit?

I only tell my personal stories to friends, privately.

 

[random3434]

Nice troll story sunni boy. Me thinks YOU were pumping something, and it wasn't gas.......................

100% true story.

Saddly, today it would be on the news as a so called hate crime.

Those were the good old days!!!

Did you ask your "boys" if they wanted regular or unleaded?

 

[Sky Dancer]

Inferno--

I hope you show up soon. Otherwise, I'm thinking this thread was a major stupid idea.

 

[Sunni Man]

Nice troll story sunni boy. Me thinks YOU were pumping something, and it wasn't gas.......................

100% true story.

Saddly, today it would be on the news as a so called hate crime.

Those were the good old days!!!

Nice personal anecdote, 'religion of peace' guy. I only tell my personal stories to friends, privately.

That happened way back in 1975 when homos were fair game for a beating.

 

[random3434]

100% true story.

Saddly, today it would be on the news as a so called hate crime.

Those were the good old days!!!

Nice personal anecdote, 'religion of peace' guy. I only tell my personal stories to friends, privately.

That happened way back in 1975 when homos were giving me spankings. I love it!.

Kinky!

 

[Sunni Man]

Look ,I don't want to have this thread derailed and have it be about me.

I just thought I would share an event that happened to me concerning gays.

Can we just get back to the homo stories?

 

[Sky Dancer]

Bullshit. Your story had just the effect you hoped it would have. No one wants to tell their stories.

I'll tell a story. When Matthew Shephard was brutally murdered one of my co-workers talked at length in the lunch room about how much he would have enjoyed being there to help. He wanted to at least hold a flashlight so the guys could better see how to torture Matthew.

Sounds like your kind of fun.

Do you tell your stories to your gay counselees Sunni? Is that some kind of aversion therapy?

 

[Toro]

So skydancer, how many of your gay and lesbian friends "decided" to become gay? All of them, I bet. It's a "choice" right?

Personally, I thought long and hard about it, but - apart from the physical revulsion of the whole gay sex thing - I have no sense of style, so I decided I wouldn't fit in.

 

[Sky Dancer]

So skydancer, how many of your gay and lesbian friends "decided" to become gay? All of them, I bet. It's a "choice" right?

Personally, I thought long and hard about it, but - apart from the physical revulsion - I have no sense of style, so I decided I wouldn't fit in.

None of them 'decided' to be gay. It's more a process of recognizing the truth about yourself.

Some of my friends knew from the time they were small children. Others, it happened at puberty. Still others, knew yet pushed it down and tried to be what was expected of them.

It's a choice of being honest with yourself or living a lie and hurting others in the process.

I've known friends who got married and they shouldn't have. I've known people who never 'come out' and lead these weird double lives, having anonymous sex with strangers and living a lie.

There are some people who are genuinely bi-sexual. For them, it may be a choice, to be with a person of the opposite sex instead of being in a same sex relationship.

My guess is that from your question--that your question is not a question but a statement and that whatever my opinion--you are convinced sexuality is chosen.

Did you choose to be heterosexual?

 

[random3434]

So skydancer, how many of your gay and lesbian friends "decided" to become gay? All of them, I bet. It's a "choice" right?

Personally, I thought long and hard about it, but - apart from the physical revulsion of the whole gay sex thing - I have no sense of style, so I decided I wouldn't fit in.

Don't say "long and hard" around sunni boy, it will make him miss his "pumping" days at the station.

 

[Toro]

Did you choose to be heterosexual?

Oh, yeah, absolutely. Let me tell you how I made my decision.

One afternoon, I took a piece of paper and divided it down the middle. Then, on the left side, I wrote down all the positives of being heterosexual. On the right side, I wrote all the negatives. Then, I subtracted the left side from the right side and came up with a number. Next, I did the same thing about being homosexual. Finally, I compared the number from the straight sheet and the number from the gay sheet. Since the number on the straight sheet was bigger, I made my analytical decision that I was, indeed, a heterosexual.

Isn't that how everyone does it?

 

[Sky Dancer]

Thanks. That's the kind of response I expected. My intuition is spot on today. People don't decide or choose to be gay any more than a heterosexual chooses to be heterosexual. It's just what you are.

 

[xsited1]

So skydancer, how many of your gay and lesbian friends "decided" to become gay? All of them, I bet. It's a "choice" right?

Personally, I thought long and hard about it, but - apart from the physical revulsion - I have no sense of style, so I decided I wouldn't fit in.

None of them 'decided' to be gay. It's more a process of recognizing the truth about yourself.

Some of my friends knew from the time they were small children. Others, it happened at puberty. Still others, knew yet pushed it down and tried to be what was expected of them.

It's a choice of being honest with yourself or living a lie and hurting others in the process.

I've known friends who got married and they shouldn't have. I've known people who never 'come out' and lead these weird double lives, having anonymous sex with strangers and living a lie.

There are some people who are genuinely bi-sexual. For them, it may be a choice, to be with a person of the opposite sex instead of being in a same sex relationship.

My guess is that from your question--that your question is not a question but a statement and that whatever my opinion--you are convinced sexuality is chosen.

Did you choose to be heterosexual?

It sounds like a choice to me. Perhaps not always a conscience choice, but a choice nonetheless. After a while, it seems natural. The human mind can be brainwashed quite easily.

 

[Sky Dancer]

I can see that it seems that way to you. You may be right. I'm only sharing my experience, and the stories my friends have told me about their experiences.

It's definitely a choice to be true to yourself, to live your life with integrity and wholeness. That's what coming out meant to me.

My father wasn't able to come out successfully. He didn't have much support. My way of honoring my father is to live openly and wholly as a lesbian. My father was gay. My mother was heterosexual. I'm lesbian and I have two sisters, one is heterosexual and one is bi-sexual. Is there a genetic component? Unclear, not enough research, only anecdotal evidence.

I am healthy and happy just being who I am. Am I really, really gay? Am I gay enough? Who knows. My life unfolded as it did.

 

[xsited1]

I can see that it seems that way to you. You may be right. I'm only sharing my experience, and the stories my friends have told me about their experiences.

It's definitely a choice to be true to yourself, to live your life with integrity and wholeness. That's what coming out meant to me.

My father wasn't able to come out successfully. He didn't have much support. My way of honoring my father is to live openly and wholly as a lesbian. My father was gay. My mother was heterosexual. I'm lesbian and I have two sisters, one is heterosexual and one is bi-sexual. Is there a genetic component? Unclear, not enough research, only anecdotal evidence.

I am healthy and happy just being who I am. Am I really, really gay? Am I gay enough? Who knows. My life unfolded as it did.

And you should be loved and treated just like everyone else.

 

[William Joyce]

None of them 'decided' to be gay. It's more a process of recognizing the truth about yourself.

...

Did you choose to be heterosexual?

So... if homosexuality isn't environmental, what is it?

Inborn?

Well, now that would be funny. Because liberals deny that anything is ever inborn. It's all about the blank slate for them. Unless that wouldn't be convenient for their agenda.

 

[Sky Dancer]

None of them 'decided' to be gay. It's more a process of recognizing the truth about yourself.

...

Did you choose to be heterosexual?

So... if homosexuality isn't environmental, what is it?

Inborn?

Well, now that would be funny. Because liberals deny that anything is ever inborn. It's all about the blank slate for them. Unless that wouldn't be convenient for their agenda.

Good question, William

Is it nature or nurture? When we unlock all the DNA secrets, maybe we'll know. Doesn't it make sense that sexuality is on a continuum?

For me personally, I relate to it the same way I relate to my left handedness. It's more natural for me to write with my left hand.

I can write and use my right hand, but it doesn't feel natural, and I just make a mess of things.

 

[Epsilon Delta]

Ah, expert psychology going on here.

This reminds me this one time, I was asking this gay person when they decided to become gay. I figured they would be talking from their personal experience and from others they would know (and I assumed they would know more than me, since I know very few gay people and aren't gay myself, so how would I know). But to my amazing surprise, they, like Sky Dancer here, told me that one doesn't "decide to become gay"; that it just "happens"! How preposterous. Why are these gays lying to me?! I know from my 50 years of psychological experience that one DOES decide to become gay. I KNOW IT. So why are these gays lying to me?!

Sky Dancer, please stop lying. We obviously know more than you do on the subject. "One doesn't decide," gimmie a break. Liberal agenda, socialistic ladyboys, *ruffle ruffle*.

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