dilloduck
Diamond Member
dmp said:But those two aspects Differentiate a "marriage" from "Friends living together".
And Zoomy hit the nail on the head, and I'll add to it by saying:
"Never stop trying to improve."
I hear SO many times offered as 'advice' to people who are struggling in their marriage: "You need to just be thankfull for what you have, and stop worrying about what you don't have."
I say, when the most defining aspects of marriage is lacking somebody sure as hell should worry about it.
That doesn't surprise me because most problems in marriage stem from one partner not feeling like they are getting what they need from the other. Selfisness is a marriage killer. Loving is giving-not getting.