presonorek
Gold Member
Is there any connection between personalities of people who are first born, second born, third born etc. ?
It is my personal observation that the first born child is more serious, more organized, healthier, less adaptable, less confident, more outspoken and usually unhappy overall.
This is probably due to the first born child receiving undivided attention for a minimum of the first 9 months of his/her life. This means the child receives an overabundance of attention and protection which gives the child a foundation of an unbalanced sense of self importance. Even when other children come into the picture the oldest child is bigger, smarter and has sustained clout with the parents. The oldest child has more control of his/her environment which doesn't translate well into adulthood. The oldest child appears to be more likely to abuse drugs, take risks, experience depression and/or be unsuccessful in his/her career. This does not go without benefits. The person is usually more organized, more outspoken, more honest and more trustworthy. This makes the first born a good candidate for successful personal relationships.
It is my personal observation that the second born child has a strong sense of humor, a competitive spirit, a craftier approach to human relations and is more adaptable to their environment. The second born child has felt compared to his/her older sibling since a very early age. This environment creates a need for creativity and humor to protect himself/herself from ridicule or violence from the older sibling. This competitive spirit and resistance to power struggles makes the second born a success in the work place. He is able to avoid the sabotage of stronger co-workers and his/her competitiveness makes the second born compelled to prove himself/herself constantly. They are inclined to be on top of things at all times. This is not without drawbacks. The second born's competitive nature makes him a poor companion or friend. The second born is on the offensive protecting himself/herself from being outwitted by the spouse or friend. Even though he/she has an abundance of friends due to his success and great sense of humor the second born rarely enjoys a close friendship.
The third, fourth and subsequent births are born at the bottom. These children tend to be quiet, calm and determined to survive at all cost. These children are also well groomed to be good employees but they lack the ambition to seek promotions or a higher position. In relationships the third born (and so on) are more accommodating and peaceful. All around the third born (and so on) make a more balanced person and are a lot more able to accept his/her circumstances in life.
Where do you fit in this discussion?
I have found that these tendencies aren't strong enough to develop a stereotype, a generality or a fireproof way to analyze a person but I do hope that it makes for an interesting discussion.
The votes in this poll are not public.
It is my personal observation that the first born child is more serious, more organized, healthier, less adaptable, less confident, more outspoken and usually unhappy overall.
This is probably due to the first born child receiving undivided attention for a minimum of the first 9 months of his/her life. This means the child receives an overabundance of attention and protection which gives the child a foundation of an unbalanced sense of self importance. Even when other children come into the picture the oldest child is bigger, smarter and has sustained clout with the parents. The oldest child has more control of his/her environment which doesn't translate well into adulthood. The oldest child appears to be more likely to abuse drugs, take risks, experience depression and/or be unsuccessful in his/her career. This does not go without benefits. The person is usually more organized, more outspoken, more honest and more trustworthy. This makes the first born a good candidate for successful personal relationships.
It is my personal observation that the second born child has a strong sense of humor, a competitive spirit, a craftier approach to human relations and is more adaptable to their environment. The second born child has felt compared to his/her older sibling since a very early age. This environment creates a need for creativity and humor to protect himself/herself from ridicule or violence from the older sibling. This competitive spirit and resistance to power struggles makes the second born a success in the work place. He is able to avoid the sabotage of stronger co-workers and his/her competitiveness makes the second born compelled to prove himself/herself constantly. They are inclined to be on top of things at all times. This is not without drawbacks. The second born's competitive nature makes him a poor companion or friend. The second born is on the offensive protecting himself/herself from being outwitted by the spouse or friend. Even though he/she has an abundance of friends due to his success and great sense of humor the second born rarely enjoys a close friendship.
The third, fourth and subsequent births are born at the bottom. These children tend to be quiet, calm and determined to survive at all cost. These children are also well groomed to be good employees but they lack the ambition to seek promotions or a higher position. In relationships the third born (and so on) are more accommodating and peaceful. All around the third born (and so on) make a more balanced person and are a lot more able to accept his/her circumstances in life.
Where do you fit in this discussion?
I have found that these tendencies aren't strong enough to develop a stereotype, a generality or a fireproof way to analyze a person but I do hope that it makes for an interesting discussion.
The votes in this poll are not public.