Aspirations

[Avatar4321]

Again, Why? Just be yourself, that usually works best.

Some people aspire to be their best self. I know I do. I'm just inconsistent with my effort.

 

[syrenn]

[ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wGFog-OuFDM]Mindfulness Bell - A 5 Minute Mindfulness Meditation - YouTube[/ame]

 

[syrenn]

[ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t8WNwxpkY6c&feature=related]Merlin's Magic - The Heart of Reiki[/ame]

 

[Sky Dancer]

Vote.

How long should sky be gone?

Three days?

A week?

A month?

Longer?

 

[syrenn]

Vote.

How long should sky be gone?

Three days?

A week?

A month?

Longer?

No one wants you gone sky.

 

[Si modo]

Vote.

How long should sky be gone?

Three days?

A week?

A month?

Longer?

Why do you want to believe that folks want you gone???????

You are looking for reasons to feel bad.

 

[Sky Dancer]

I made an agreement with myself about these aspirations which includes taking posting breaks.

 

[syrenn]

Why the need for self flagellation and penance sky?


But if you must.... how about an hour thinking about it all.

 

[Sky Dancer]

Why the need for self flagellation and penance sky?

I don't see it that way at all.

 

[Si modo]

I made an agreement with myself about these aspirations which includes taking posting breaks.

And, how does that relate to your wanting to believe that folks want you gone?

I honestly don't understand.

 

[syrenn]

Why the need for self flagellation and penance sky?

I don't see it that way at all.

That is the way it looks to me.

 

[Si modo]

OK. I'll just be my direct self:

Few, if any, want you to leave the board, Sky. If you really don't believe that, then do start a poll.

Secondly, you are waaaaaaaaay too hard on yourself.

Thirdly, no one expects you to be perfect. If they do, then fuck'em. (No, that's not a "rape term", either - it's a dismissal, too.)

Four. When you screw up, and you will again because you ARE human, folks are pretty forgiving, generally. But, they forgive more easily when you admit to a mistake.

Finally, I see you making great progress because you are seeing your part in what sort of responses you get. It seems that the type of responses you get is important to you, so you are trying to see what YOU can do to change that.

(Me, I just don't care if I get mean responses. Hopefully you can find value in that someday because I think it will give you a bit of peace of mind. But, I digress.)

 

[Sky Dancer]

Why the need for self flagellation and penance sky?

I don't see it that way at all.

That is the way it looks to me.

You're entitled to your view.

 

[RadiomanATL]

Or which stations have the lowest gas prices?

Low, mid or high octane?

Thinking about it, she'd probably buy diesel and wonder why the matches didn't work.

 

[RadiomanATL]

Vote.

How long should sky be gone?

Three days?

A week?

A month?

Longer?

I bet you couldn't stay away for a month.

 

[Avatar4321]

Vote.

How long should sky be gone?

Three days?

A week?

A month?

Longer?

No one wants you gone sky.

I sure don't.

 

[Avatar4321]

Vote.

How long should sky be gone?

Three days?

A week?

A month?

Longer?

I bet you couldn't stay away for a month.

lol. I know I couldn't. I can manage a week and a half at this point since i have. but a month is a bit much. I enjoy talking with everyone too much.

 

[Sky Dancer]

Vote.

How long should sky be gone?

Three days?

A week?

A month?

Longer?

No one wants you gone sky.

I sure don't.

Sweet of you to say so.

 

[Avatar4321]

No one wants you gone sky.

I sure don't.

Sweet of you to say so.

I don't know that it's sweet or really anything. I just know I don't want you gone. I like our lively conversations.

 

[Sky Dancer]

I sure don't.

Sweet of you to say so.

I don't know that it's sweet or really anything. I just know I don't want you gone. I like our lively conversations.

Thank you. You must be one of those folks who don't like being characterized as sweet or kind.

I enjoy lively conversations when I handle myself well. I don't enjoy them when I don't.