Well, after reading you two have your little pissing contest on who can be the least civil... I think I can say that you're both less informed than either of you believe yourselves to be and that you're both rabid partisans who have so wildly out-of-touch reality and fact that it would be very difficult to have a discussion with either of you.
His argument: "We all know Bush has cut veterans' benefits"
Your argument: "My benefits haven't been cut so you're FOS"
Is this what constitutes "debate" or "civil discourse" from military veterans? I find it to be a pretty sad commentary on us as a whole (and, yes, I'm in my 20th year of service right now...) if this is what the public sees when they see veterans "debate."
Maybe these folks are "Bush haters"? http://www.vfw.org/index.cfm?fa=news.newsDtl&did=1576
I mean, when you've got the National Commander-in-Chief of the VFW calling President Bush's VA budget request "despicable," "disgraceful," "inadequate," "a disgrace and a sham," "deplorable," "a shell game," "outrageous," and "disgraceful" all in one news release... I think there's probably something there. Might not be to the level of "Bush hates veterans"... but it's definitely something.
All the major veterans organizations have similar open-letters to the President regarding what they consider to be his Administrations' stingy budgeting in just about every year he's been president... but, why take the VFW, the DAV, AMVETS, and PVA's word for it... what the hell do they know, right?
More: http://www.amvets.org/HTML/news_you_can_use/release04-02.htm