Mary was married, had 2 children, got a divorce, meet a new man. Mary and her new man John started dating and Mary had a child for John. They are not married. John got in trouble while Mary was pregnant (5 months) and he was removed for 3.5. When John returned the child was 3 years old and Mary had managed to carry on. John is now home and unemployed, he doesn't have anything. Mary is doing all she can for herself, the 3 kids and John. John has decide that he needs to get back on his feet, so he wants to go a vocational school to get his AutoCAD licenses. The school that he choose has a course that costs $3,500.00 and will guarantee employment upon graduation. John has asked Mary to "give" him the $3,500.00 for the school. John states this will be his way of getting a job and providing for Mary and the 3 kids. Is John asking for too much? Should Mary "give" him the money - $3,500?