virginity

i dont like oral sex. i dont understand why a Girl would like to suck on a cock?

yeah kinda like being almost pregnant.

Dude, respectfully, you're asking questions on a message board that can only be answered by going out and experiencing life....You're sounding as though you're looking for a relationship that is basically one dimensional, meaning, it's about what YOU want....Well, as a soon to be forty nine year old man, who has been very happily married for quite a few years, I can tell you that a one dimensional marriage/relationship will NEVER work.....There has to be give and take from both sides, in EVERY aspect of the relationship.....Until you realize that, you're just going to go through life alone, or end up being very hurt by somebody at some point.

I wish ya' luck....But, go out and live life.

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Thank you, but I dont think I want a one dimensional relationship, and im not a guy who is always pushing his will in a relationship. Actually im a kinda guy who emphasis on the wishes of the woman. for me it is just Basic that i dont want a slut. well nowadays most women had experiences with at least 10 guys before they end married, and if it was only 10 they are kinda conservative. so it will be very difficult even if i end up with a woman who has experiences i wouldnt want her to tell me about her past Lovers, and i will always be hurt about it, because im a very jealous kind of guy.

Most women who are virgins, most men who are virgins are virgins for a reason. They do not have basic social skills and are awkward in relationships

You seem to fit the bill

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when I have been 16years old i was ridicoled for being a virgin because most of my Peers already had sex at the Age of 14/15 and i was put under Group pressure to have sex that is why i had sex once so i could say im not a virgin because it is a shame to be a virgin in our Society. People attack me for my values on sexuality, and we dont really have a choice if we want to save for marriage or not, because all of us go through what i went through

You have a poor self image and a bizarre view of what you expect from a relationship. Just a hint....sex is a very small part of it

Being judgemental about relationships that occured before you met a woman is not a good way to start. Holding women to a standard that you, yourself do not meet is also not a good way to start.

Another hint.......don't treat sex like it is dirty

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1.i agree that sex is only a small part of human relationships, yet you are a hypocrite like most People who will say that to disprove me. because clearly sex is very important part of our Society, and prove is what i went through when i have been bullied for being a virgin when i have been a Teenager at the Age of 16. if sex is truly unimportant then you wouldnt mind my opinion, because everyone would have a choice either pro or contra sex before marriage. but sex is clearly polarised in our Society (there is someone like me and then the majority of People who reject my views, there is no inbetween). and if sex is not that important does it means we should not care with whom we sleep, how often, where etc.? or it means sex is not important as in a woman shouldnt leave a guy if he is not a sex bomb, or a guy a woman if she is bad at giving head or doesnt want to do all the kinky stuff he wants. for me it is clearly the latter, but for the majority it is clearly the first.

2.i dont judge them by their past more like by their attitudes and characters and many sexual Encounters speak for no values and poor character, they dont know what romance is

3.i hold guys generally by other Standards then females

Jealousy will kill any relationship. Jealousy is not about love, but, fear and insecurity. There is nothing better than to have the person you love grow into and enjoy the relationship naturally, at their own rate and come to you freely . What you suggest has nothing to do with love, but, emotional hostage taking; that will never last the test of time and will be filled with anger, resentment and deception on both parties even for the most innocent interactions with those outside the relationship.

What you propose is a living hell.

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Sex is part of a normal human relationship. What goes on between the sheets is between that couple. To some people, sex is just fun and not a sealing of a human bond forever. It is up to the individual how they execute their sexuality

You are obviously uptight about sex and are not going to change. You will have to find a woman of similar views who is willing to conform to your strict views on sex

You are obviously from a culture outside of the traditional American culture. I suggest you seek out women from your culture or one with similar beliefs on the role of women

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im jealous, but not someone who doesnt trust his woman. i dont go Monitoring her 24/7, im not that Kind of jealous

I will probably never come to see a american in real life, so im not seeking out a american wife. But where I live and grew up it is not different. And there is no real free choice in sex, at least not in america and western europe or wherever sexual liberty reigns. Even other countries and cultures, societies who have different views are bullied by western powers to Change. For example Russia put a ban on gay Propaganda and now they are under attack, just like i have been under attack for Holding on to virginity, or by a few here for wanting a virgin woman.

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Why do you care?

Be your own person. Who cares about what other people think? You are not from the Western culture so why do you care what westerners think? If you express your views, you will be criticised by people with a western view

Do what you think is right. Find a girl who meets your values. Just don't expect an American girl to take your bullshit

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I have not been only criticed but heavily insulted "fat, ugly, gay and many more". Yes i expressed my views and asked if someone shares similar views. And If I cant have a american wife, americans shouldnt be able to have wifes from other cultures but many americans seek out mates from other cultures and do have some.